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I'm 19, i live in finland. after graduation from school and army i got work in oil-refinery as operator. i have about 8-12 working days in month so i have lots of free time, my job pays more than average, i have my 60m2 house in citys heart and im single, so it sounds like everything is fine.
everyday im alone, i dont know anyone from this city and i havnt been able to get any friends from here. Im locked in my house on my days off. i dont talk to anyone and im scared to go outside. why?, i have no idea. even when i go to convenient store i feel bit nervous, I have couple of good, wonderful friends one is 11000km way from here and others are married and in different city. i knew them so well.. that its hard to get new friends becouse new friendship is not that deep which i have get used to..
So i curse myself everyday, i despise myself.,but i dont hate myself i know that i am a decent, funny guy and ok looks.but something is wrong with me. once i felt so sick when i tought of myself and my life i shaked and i were cold; i was in a physical pain and i almost puked.
i have tought of a suicide but noway im going to do that, its most idiotic way to end everything.
I have been thinking of leaving, quitting my job and leave this country. But im a coward. i have secure life. i have everything that ones need to live, but i need to feel alive, i want to do things that i want, not the things that are for my "best".but im too afraid to step out of my safe life. so thats how the things are..
i have read messages here and ive seen that many of you are way older than me, so you have more life experience and have had more hardships than i, so i ask your opinnion what should i do? is this all just something that time will change? Would you start from a scratch?
everyday im alone, i dont know anyone from this city and i havnt been able to get any friends from here. Im locked in my house on my days off. i dont talk to anyone and im scared to go outside. why?, i have no idea. even when i go to convenient store i feel bit nervous, I have couple of good, wonderful friends one is 11000km way from here and others are married and in different city. i knew them so well.. that its hard to get new friends becouse new friendship is not that deep which i have get used to..
So i curse myself everyday, i despise myself.,but i dont hate myself i know that i am a decent, funny guy and ok looks.but something is wrong with me. once i felt so sick when i tought of myself and my life i shaked and i were cold; i was in a physical pain and i almost puked.
i have tought of a suicide but noway im going to do that, its most idiotic way to end everything.
I have been thinking of leaving, quitting my job and leave this country. But im a coward. i have secure life. i have everything that ones need to live, but i need to feel alive, i want to do things that i want, not the things that are for my "best".but im too afraid to step out of my safe life. so thats how the things are..
i have read messages here and ive seen that many of you are way older than me, so you have more life experience and have had more hardships than i, so i ask your opinnion what should i do? is this all just something that time will change? Would you start from a scratch?