Joe Spaulding
Member
Wow! I joined this forum over four years ago and totally forgot it.
I feel like I'm the supporting character in everybody else's movie. People like me at least in the abstract, but it's a distant kind of friendship limited to a facebook comment about what a great guy I am or a vague promise that we should get together again soon.
I do have some friends I get together with once every couple of weeks or so, but I spend a lot of time a lone and lonely. For being well-liked at worked, it's a rare occurrence that anybody asks me if I want to grab lunch (like twice in 7 years rare).
I don't feel like my life is miserable. I've got a good job and a nice second income writing ebooks, but I really long for more. At 46, romance for me has been limited to a handful of dates and a lot of unrequited longing. I've about given up on love now, especially because I've gotten quite overweight I also feel that it's hard to make friends when everybody else has children or at least a spouse.
I've spent a lot of my life pretending I wasn't lonely and putting on a front. Most of the time I do keep occupied, but other times, I feel like there must be so much more than this to life.
I feel like I'm the supporting character in everybody else's movie. People like me at least in the abstract, but it's a distant kind of friendship limited to a facebook comment about what a great guy I am or a vague promise that we should get together again soon.
I do have some friends I get together with once every couple of weeks or so, but I spend a lot of time a lone and lonely. For being well-liked at worked, it's a rare occurrence that anybody asks me if I want to grab lunch (like twice in 7 years rare).
I don't feel like my life is miserable. I've got a good job and a nice second income writing ebooks, but I really long for more. At 46, romance for me has been limited to a handful of dates and a lot of unrequited longing. I've about given up on love now, especially because I've gotten quite overweight I also feel that it's hard to make friends when everybody else has children or at least a spouse.
I've spent a lot of my life pretending I wasn't lonely and putting on a front. Most of the time I do keep occupied, but other times, I feel like there must be so much more than this to life.