I don't have acceptance issues, and I'm not out to judge. Ever read "The Great Gatsby"? In the first few pages, Nick Carroway establishes his reliability as a narrator, in that he reserves judgement, due to the fact that others didn't have the advantages that he had growing up. However, he loathed when people would confide in him about things that would inevitably change his opinion of them. He didn't judge, but eventually, his tolerance had a limit. That's more of where I'm coming from. There is also a professional distance that must be kept between adult teachers and minor students; the more I know, the more dangerous it can be. I also have a professional and legal obligation as a designated reporter to immediately dislcose any such behavior to children's services. Of course, we teachers use a sort of filter, and often times turn a blind ear to behaviors that aren't necessarily self destructive. I.E., even though we're supposed to immediately phone a parent to inform them we have discovered their child is pregnant, I won't do that right away, as I want the kid to learn and grow from the experience, and tell their parents on their own.
I am disappointed that you see me as such a judging, uncaring, ruthless person. While you're entitled to your opinion, and it doesn't overly concern me, it is a shame that you incorrectly infer so much about me based on something I've typed. Talk about judging blindly...