Siertes
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Once upon a time I considered myself a good person. There were things I knew to be wrong and could never imagine myself being a part of them. There were things I counted myself above, common societal practices I could live without for the betterment of my mind, body, and wallet.
But...
As time marches on, I'm not sure if I'm losing those values entirely or just lacking the energy to hold strong to them. At the moment it's mostly in thought but I feel that in my current state, I'm of a mind to give in to all kinds of temptations.
I was never much of a drinker. I can't stand the taste and always looked sideways at those who did it constantly for the fun but part of me wants to dive into it. Lose myself in drunken stupors and not have a care in the world.
On the subject of relationships, I had always been against cheating in any form, but the lonelier I get, the more I feel like I wouldn't turn down a proposition from someone in a monogamous relationship. I've always been more comfortable talking to unavailable women. That fact relieved me of any pressure, assuming I found them attractive in some way, that I should be doing something to earn their favor and attention but now...there's a constant itch, a nagging desire that if I say the right things and nudge them in the perfect direction...
It's pathetic. I detest thinking like this but I'm finding it harder and harder to fight. I liken living with loneliness to going to prison with no real rehabilitation program: the person who goes in comes out worse than before. You live in this state surrounded by all this bad and your mind just adapts to it in order to survive.
Being good didn't find me happiness. Those that did all the things I avoided have all the things I've always wanted. There are no rewards for sticking to my values. "Screw it all," your thoughts start saying again and again.
Anyone else have a mind traversing this dark path? Or perhaps this was once you but you've found a way out. Please share either way...
But...
As time marches on, I'm not sure if I'm losing those values entirely or just lacking the energy to hold strong to them. At the moment it's mostly in thought but I feel that in my current state, I'm of a mind to give in to all kinds of temptations.
I was never much of a drinker. I can't stand the taste and always looked sideways at those who did it constantly for the fun but part of me wants to dive into it. Lose myself in drunken stupors and not have a care in the world.
On the subject of relationships, I had always been against cheating in any form, but the lonelier I get, the more I feel like I wouldn't turn down a proposition from someone in a monogamous relationship. I've always been more comfortable talking to unavailable women. That fact relieved me of any pressure, assuming I found them attractive in some way, that I should be doing something to earn their favor and attention but now...there's a constant itch, a nagging desire that if I say the right things and nudge them in the perfect direction...
It's pathetic. I detest thinking like this but I'm finding it harder and harder to fight. I liken living with loneliness to going to prison with no real rehabilitation program: the person who goes in comes out worse than before. You live in this state surrounded by all this bad and your mind just adapts to it in order to survive.
Being good didn't find me happiness. Those that did all the things I avoided have all the things I've always wanted. There are no rewards for sticking to my values. "Screw it all," your thoughts start saying again and again.
Anyone else have a mind traversing this dark path? Or perhaps this was once you but you've found a way out. Please share either way...