AfterDark
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I have been puzzled by this one thing since I joined this forum. Perhaps it's just my own experience, but still.. there has to be something to it.
Anyway ... to the point..!
This is a forum for the lonely, shouldn't the average reason for people to come here be to bring people into their lives so that they would no longer feel lonely?
I find it an odd thing, that the networking section of the forum, isn't even close to being one of the most active ones. There are few people making threads.. trying to reach out to people. There is less than an average of one person a month sincerely trying to make a decent attempt at this, by using that section. Most here do not seem to want to form bonds with people, to actually make good friends. The casual post in a thread or two seems to be the limit for many. Of course I do not have any idea how much goes on behind the scenes (PMs).
There are different ways of getting to know each other, posting in random threads about random things is a slow and inefficient way. Imagine if everyone here, made a thread similar to the one MissyEchelon made recently. Much good could come of it I bet. She put down a lot in her thread, pretty much why she's here, what she's looking for, how she is like as a person, well done! I can understand people value their anonymity (I do too), but you wouldn't have to put down that much information.
I just think it a pity, this forum could've been so much more than it currently is, a solution to many peoples loneliness. This is not criticism of the forum, but of the users.
I could go on, but I'll leave it at that..
Anyway ... to the point..!
This is a forum for the lonely, shouldn't the average reason for people to come here be to bring people into their lives so that they would no longer feel lonely?
I find it an odd thing, that the networking section of the forum, isn't even close to being one of the most active ones. There are few people making threads.. trying to reach out to people. There is less than an average of one person a month sincerely trying to make a decent attempt at this, by using that section. Most here do not seem to want to form bonds with people, to actually make good friends. The casual post in a thread or two seems to be the limit for many. Of course I do not have any idea how much goes on behind the scenes (PMs).
There are different ways of getting to know each other, posting in random threads about random things is a slow and inefficient way. Imagine if everyone here, made a thread similar to the one MissyEchelon made recently. Much good could come of it I bet. She put down a lot in her thread, pretty much why she's here, what she's looking for, how she is like as a person, well done! I can understand people value their anonymity (I do too), but you wouldn't have to put down that much information.
I just think it a pity, this forum could've been so much more than it currently is, a solution to many peoples loneliness. This is not criticism of the forum, but of the users.
I could go on, but I'll leave it at that..