TrailerTrish
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I've been running into this for many years, and it seems the only form of social interaction available to me anymore. I'm at a social occasion, a public place, and run into someone I know casually, who starts out the conversation with, "So hey girl, how are you doing? What's going on in your life?"
I start to tell them, because they asked, and before I can get anything meaningful out they interrupt me and start going on and on and on about their stuff, whipping out their iPhone to show me all their pictures, their Facebook page, and telling me all about everyone they know and all their stuff.
If I try to talk about what's going on with me (remember them asking me about that?) they just interrupt and go on about themselves, talking over me until I give up, or change the subject back to their stuff, and whatever they want to talk about.
This happened again yesterday at a karaoke bar, twice, with two different people, who it was clear only initiated the conversation to have someone to blather on and on to about their stuff. This has been going on for years with me, and I really do have to wonder if I just look to them like some receptacle they can dump into endlessly while shutting me out, or if others have this experience as well.
It seems quite ubiquitous anymore, and it seems everyone I meet anymore only wants to talk at me and not to me or with me. They sit down next to me, start what seems to be a conversation, and then just run roughshod all over me, completely ignoring me as a person with feelings and a life of my own in favor of having someone to endlessly spew their own stuff at, pouring out their ego, talking themselves up, going on about their problems, their politics, their opinions, ad infinitum while I sit there feeling used like a piece of toilet paper.
I often want to just get up and walk away without a word since it's obvious they won't let me get one in anyway. If that offends them so much the better. Perhaps I won't be bothered with them again.
I've been going through a pretty rough time of late, with absolutely no one I can talk to about any of it, so it's doubly painful to have to endure this treatment from these selfish people who care nothing at all about me, and who are all about themselves so completely.
I've always been socially isolated and this is one of the main reasons why. My loneliness has been particularly painful over the last two weeks, and this just rubs salt in the wound while cutting new wounds. These selfish people never have the least thought about the other person or what they might want to share, they are totally about themselves.
More and more it seems to me that there are only two kinds of people out there, these selfish egoists, and those who just freeze me out altogether. It really does seem a very cold and empty world, and at present I have a very low opinion of society at large.
I start to tell them, because they asked, and before I can get anything meaningful out they interrupt me and start going on and on and on about their stuff, whipping out their iPhone to show me all their pictures, their Facebook page, and telling me all about everyone they know and all their stuff.
If I try to talk about what's going on with me (remember them asking me about that?) they just interrupt and go on about themselves, talking over me until I give up, or change the subject back to their stuff, and whatever they want to talk about.
This happened again yesterday at a karaoke bar, twice, with two different people, who it was clear only initiated the conversation to have someone to blather on and on to about their stuff. This has been going on for years with me, and I really do have to wonder if I just look to them like some receptacle they can dump into endlessly while shutting me out, or if others have this experience as well.
It seems quite ubiquitous anymore, and it seems everyone I meet anymore only wants to talk at me and not to me or with me. They sit down next to me, start what seems to be a conversation, and then just run roughshod all over me, completely ignoring me as a person with feelings and a life of my own in favor of having someone to endlessly spew their own stuff at, pouring out their ego, talking themselves up, going on about their problems, their politics, their opinions, ad infinitum while I sit there feeling used like a piece of toilet paper.
I often want to just get up and walk away without a word since it's obvious they won't let me get one in anyway. If that offends them so much the better. Perhaps I won't be bothered with them again.
I've been going through a pretty rough time of late, with absolutely no one I can talk to about any of it, so it's doubly painful to have to endure this treatment from these selfish people who care nothing at all about me, and who are all about themselves so completely.
I've always been socially isolated and this is one of the main reasons why. My loneliness has been particularly painful over the last two weeks, and this just rubs salt in the wound while cutting new wounds. These selfish people never have the least thought about the other person or what they might want to share, they are totally about themselves.
More and more it seems to me that there are only two kinds of people out there, these selfish egoists, and those who just freeze me out altogether. It really does seem a very cold and empty world, and at present I have a very low opinion of society at large.