Hi so I am 19 years old and have been on and off dating this guy for the past few months. When we first started dating he seemed crazy over me and told me I was the "hottest girl he had ever dated." So after dating for a bit one night he messages me on facebook after seeing a picture of me and another guy on their saying "I'm jealous of everything you do and I hate seeing pictures of you and other guys. I want to be with you, I want you to be my girlfriend." He was drunk that night so I figured it wasn't that serious. The next morning he texted me and I said "wow you were really wasted last night you said you wanted me to be your girlfriend." he replied, "I do." So one night a few weeks later we went to the movies and came back to his dorm afterwards and I was like "I want you to be my boyfriend." he was like "really?" and I said yes, so we made it official. He was all excited telling me I was the most gorgeous girl hes dated, blah blah blah. So I sent him the facebook request, and he texted me saying he doesn't "out his relationships."
So naturally, I was a little upset and we argued a little bit over it. But we got over it.
Later, he had lost his phone so he didnt have one and he told me to meet him at his dorm at a certain time so I did and he basicially stood me up. So I deleted him off my FB and he freaked out and kept sending me messages apologizing and saying please answer me and etc. etc. So I finally excepted his apology but I still feel like the only reason he is dating me is because he thinks I'm hot. Like he never tries to get to know me and instead of holding my hand at the movies last night and putting his arm around me he was texting someone else. So I told him that last night after our date and he got angry and hasn't spoken to me since..
Do yall think I am wasting my time seeing him still?
So naturally, I was a little upset and we argued a little bit over it. But we got over it.
Later, he had lost his phone so he didnt have one and he told me to meet him at his dorm at a certain time so I did and he basicially stood me up. So I deleted him off my FB and he freaked out and kept sending me messages apologizing and saying please answer me and etc. etc. So I finally excepted his apology but I still feel like the only reason he is dating me is because he thinks I'm hot. Like he never tries to get to know me and instead of holding my hand at the movies last night and putting his arm around me he was texting someone else. So I told him that last night after our date and he got angry and hasn't spoken to me since..
Do yall think I am wasting my time seeing him still?