wolfshadow said:
It's funny; I know the path that led me to this point in life backwards and forwards. But it doesn't do me any good. You improve yourself by taking action, not dwelling on the past.
"Doing" is most definately the key to progress but only if one finds the right things to do and is doing them correctly.
That for some can take an awfuly time to figure out if ever. I say that because I've been employed more often than not, fulfilled most of the other obligations expected of a western adult, yet for naught. None of this has helped me evolve or grow, if anything my experiences
of doing have served to take a big bite out of my confidence.
The past is our only solid point of reference, whilst I agree that luxuriating in previous folly or pain is a futile endeavour, the past does offer reasoned, factual insight into who we are and what we are capable of (or not as the case may be). If self improvement has historically proven difficult if not impossible, then it takes a certain leap of faith on behalf of the subject to believe they can really make it happen.
That's pretty much where I'm at right now.
You have faith already wolf....just apply it to yourself or your greater awarness, greater goods.
Surely you don't lack any actions.
It's taking proper actions or the actions of your desires without
the guilt, shame and fears or the actions the will lead to your personal growth.
Surely if you have more you can afford to give more.
To know where you are at is an excellent place to be. (acceptence)
This will give you a refference piont.
Some people say..." you gotta know where you're at first in order to know where you wanna go."
Self dicipline, persitents, perseverance, positive attitude...
All these will help you achive your goals and desires.
Yeap...taking a leap of faith...Step through the invisible
wall of fears to break out of our comfortzone.
Breaking out of our old habitaul ways of thinking...small consiousness
out to greater awareness. In other words we no longer have
tunnel vision with our obsession
detachements..letting go..surrender
This are all the samething things
It might feel like we're going against the grain. (because we are)
Changes are discomforting for everyone...
Having the forsite that it might feel a bit uncomfortiable to
change..We simply put one foot in front of the other to
step away from our comfortzone.
As we step a little further away from comfortzone...a part
of us will want to return to what is familar and comfortiable.
Our minds and body will seek the path of least resistence.
This is were...procastinations, laziness, over thinking, obessions or addictions sets in.
Our minds plays tricks on us...devert us back to our comfortzone...through guilt ,shame...etc (1000 froms of fears).lol
"Nothing to fear except fear itself"
fresia Everything And Run..back to our comfortzone..lol
or Face Everything And Recover
Fualts Evidecne Apprearing Real
On an emotional level or awareness...what we resist will persist...
We resist changes, resist discomfort...always on the vurge of stepping through our fears.
A coping kill or tool..is to stop fighting, let go, or be transparent to our emotions.
In other words...courage is not without fears...
We take up courage, face our fears (experince it)...Faith keeps us moving forward inspite of our fears.
we will renegociate will ourselves...It's a natural process.
Faith...follow faith and continue to step foward...
Even when we failed again and again or take steps bakwards
Success is a series of failures.
Hope...will inspire us.
Faith is hope in actions.
Faith picks us up and gets us moving forward no matter what, even if we make mistakes.
You know...the little engine that could for the DumBo cartoon...
I think i can...I think i can..I think i can, I know I can ...I know can..I know I can
Just keep it simple...like that.
If we look back to our comfortzone..we will turn into salt. (stone)
By experince all these things...it's charactor building or personal growths.
we learn more about ourselves...we learn about our fears and flaws.
As we learn to get through our fears and obsticals...we gain more self confidence.
We learn to forgive ourselves for making mistakes.
We learn to have patience and tolerance for ouselves.
We learn to have compassion for ourselves.
We learn to Love ourselves no matter what.
By experincing these things within ourselves...we then apply the same principles with dealing with others.
We learn how to live in peace with ourselves and peace with others.