jales
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You ever think that you want too much?
I saw that movie 'Becoming Jane' .. I love JaneAustin books; all of them are amazing. But she ended up alone. She had many offers at marriage but guess what ..she ended up alone; cause she wouldnt settle.
Now somehow I feel like my youth will pass me by; and this one thing in my life will never be fulfilled. Partially cause I'm so scared of the unknown, partially because I want too much.
Sometimes I listen to what people say they want in a lover. And it's like they list all these things that mean nothing to me....
Yet even though I dont judge on as many things as them, I still have higher standards.
It sucks as well cause I'm not pretty, or as though I have anything going for me that 'generally' speaking guys go for.
Yet still I want too much. I want a friendship (at least partcially) with a guy if I'm with him. But no guys seem to want that.
None; or every few... okay i'm rambling. When do you settle? what do you settle for?
I know relationships arent a walk in the park, but
YoU know for some people relationships are just.. a lable to sex with someone you can tolorate(at first)... eventually you usually get attached. Not sure though.. it's different 4 everyone
ahh okay .. rambled thread..
tell me what you want or think about settling for the one? or your chances of getting what you really want? what's your take on this waiting game?
I know it's simplier than I make it out to be 2.. boy likes girl.. girl likes boy.. they are happy.. they fight... that cant live with out eachother :0]
maybe at least..
I saw that movie 'Becoming Jane' .. I love JaneAustin books; all of them are amazing. But she ended up alone. She had many offers at marriage but guess what ..she ended up alone; cause she wouldnt settle.
Now somehow I feel like my youth will pass me by; and this one thing in my life will never be fulfilled. Partially cause I'm so scared of the unknown, partially because I want too much.
Sometimes I listen to what people say they want in a lover. And it's like they list all these things that mean nothing to me....
Yet even though I dont judge on as many things as them, I still have higher standards.
It sucks as well cause I'm not pretty, or as though I have anything going for me that 'generally' speaking guys go for.
Yet still I want too much. I want a friendship (at least partcially) with a guy if I'm with him. But no guys seem to want that.
None; or every few... okay i'm rambling. When do you settle? what do you settle for?
I know relationships arent a walk in the park, but
YoU know for some people relationships are just.. a lable to sex with someone you can tolorate(at first)... eventually you usually get attached. Not sure though.. it's different 4 everyone
ahh okay .. rambled thread..
tell me what you want or think about settling for the one? or your chances of getting what you really want? what's your take on this waiting game?
I know it's simplier than I make it out to be 2.. boy likes girl.. girl likes boy.. they are happy.. they fight... that cant live with out eachother :0]
maybe at least..