TheUnknown
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Preface: The last time I was heard from, I apparently retired from "The Game of The Mind" that was plaguing me in the worst way possible. Anyone that reads this thread should have a basic knowledge of my thread "The Game of The Mind" to fully comprehend the events that I am about to unveil to you.
Ok well last time you heard, my lady issue was obviously that I liked this girl but never knew how she felt. Well I had a friend tell me that she was talking smack about me (which as you know in my case, is a nightmare in itself.) Almost exploding I confronted and asked nicely, apparently it was a hoax because, well.... She told me that when we first knew each other for the first few weeks that she had a crush on me. I confessed it too and it was out there. She ended up not pursing it obviously because she has a boyfriend and she said that our views conflict alot (as newbirth said in old thread) and that it is relationship suicide in her viewpoint. I called her on it and apologized that she felt that way about my views and then she ended up saying that it wasn't that as much as her being known to have commitment issues in past relationships and didn't want to put me through that considering how most of her relationships never last that long. Then she said that she didn't want to think of anyone but her bf while they are dating, out of respect for him and she said no disrespect to me. She then told me of the different ways she had to cover up the crush to her friends and even her boyfriend by telling them there was no feelings. She even complemented me on all the good things about me. Then that was it - after her anxiety attack over her thinking I hated her. We talked a bit more and then it returned to normal the next day. Now I feel like i'm waiting in line for a ride and I don't know what to say or what to do. How I should be feeling or what I should be feeling. I still want to pursue her but we just still act like friends but now that's out in the open. It's a pretty slow death on my part and I could use any advice you guys can offer. Please?
Ok well last time you heard, my lady issue was obviously that I liked this girl but never knew how she felt. Well I had a friend tell me that she was talking smack about me (which as you know in my case, is a nightmare in itself.) Almost exploding I confronted and asked nicely, apparently it was a hoax because, well.... She told me that when we first knew each other for the first few weeks that she had a crush on me. I confessed it too and it was out there. She ended up not pursing it obviously because she has a boyfriend and she said that our views conflict alot (as newbirth said in old thread) and that it is relationship suicide in her viewpoint. I called her on it and apologized that she felt that way about my views and then she ended up saying that it wasn't that as much as her being known to have commitment issues in past relationships and didn't want to put me through that considering how most of her relationships never last that long. Then she said that she didn't want to think of anyone but her bf while they are dating, out of respect for him and she said no disrespect to me. She then told me of the different ways she had to cover up the crush to her friends and even her boyfriend by telling them there was no feelings. She even complemented me on all the good things about me. Then that was it - after her anxiety attack over her thinking I hated her. We talked a bit more and then it returned to normal the next day. Now I feel like i'm waiting in line for a ride and I don't know what to say or what to do. How I should be feeling or what I should be feeling. I still want to pursue her but we just still act like friends but now that's out in the open. It's a pretty slow death on my part and I could use any advice you guys can offer. Please?
