What do I do?

[Musicalpsycho]

I'm sorry if this is in the wrong section, I wasn't sure where to put it.

A few years ago a good freind of mine (or so I thought) betrayed me to get in with another group of freinds. This led to bullying and harrassment from large numbers of people from school, from the people I knew outside school and some whom I'd never met before. Anyway, so I was completely isolated, but even a year or two after it stopped and most of the people have moved on I still feel isolated.

I spend more and more time at home watching TV, listening to music etc and keep telling myself that I don't need people, that there's some other source of motivation to get me through my A levels and on to university. But I can see now that we all need relationships, I've just left it so long that I'm completely alone. I decided today to change that, I'm just not sure how. I go to a guys' school which makes it more difficult to meet girls, I go to a youth group but they're all younger than me now. Where do I go? What can I do? How can I end this situation that makes me want to die every time I see a happy couple or a group of freinds?

Thankyou if you've bothered to read this far, it's just so unbearable now, I'm desparate for something, anything to make this better.

 

[5pt7art]

how old r u?

 

[Nolife Princess]

Hi,
The only way is to get in 'groups' activities, clubs, church, or boys club, just what ever it is, but find a clique that shares in the same hobbies, ideas, and likes the same as you.
If you are shy, it will be a little more difficult for you.. but if you are all out there, and outgoing, you will have no problem fitting in.

*hugs*

 

[flaneur]

Volunteering, bookstores, concerts and coffee shops.

 

[Musicalpsycho]

how old r u?

17

 

[Memento Vivere]

Sports could help, high school sport teams do a lot a activities together. Clubs, you said youth group so i guessing church? See if your school has a religious club, or if your school has JROTC. I joined this year and its a great way to meet new people and has special teams within it that do different types of activities.

 

[HappyYogi]

Go to places where you are most likely to meet others with similar sensibilities as yourself.