What do you miss most?

[catwixen]

If you do not have a "life"..as in being able to go out and socialise whenever you want....what do you miss?

I miss being able to do things with my son...just everyday stuff, going to the movies, seeing him in his plays, organising great birthday parties, meeting his friends. These things bother me greatly.
Luckily my son is very understanding of my issues.

So, do you miss certain things?

 

[Minus]

Just simple every day things that i would guess that most people don't give a second thought like being able to walk into a restaurant and order a cup of coffee. Being around people, though that is rather mixed because i am both attracted to and repelled by the idea.

 

[scotsgirl]

I think I miss being more impulsive than I am now. Just things like thinking of going somewhere different and not feeling able to just do it. Thinking and thinking about it, till I convince myself it's a bad idea.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

I miss going dancing with my gf or just going out to have dinner with her.
Yeah simple stuff...just going for a stroll on the beach or watching the sunset and sunraise.

Yeah..I missed playing with my children when they were little kids.
Or just taking my kids to the play ground and just let them play.
I miss my duaghters...I miss all the silly questions they used to ask me about life and me given them answers
in way they could understand.
such as....How come the moon dosn't come out ever nite daddy?

I guess the most I miss is playing on stage with my band.

 

[Minus]

.... Just things like thinking of going somewhere different and not feeling able to just do it. Thinking and thinking about it, till I convince myself it's a bad idea.

Yes that one too.

 

[luciddisconnect]

I miss:

Going any place that I might think of. I'm just not game for doing as much alone anymore. I'd like to hike in the woods, play laser tag, see films, drive to obscure landmarks in the countryside, bike cross country, go to concerts, see theatrical performances, go to art exhibitions, camp out in the desert, sit with company in front of an open fire, and just try new things when I think of them and have someone to share it with.

I miss:

Feeling desirable.
Having any kind of physical contact with the opposite sex.

I miss:

Having an audience that cares about the new artwork that I'm making.
Having the social skills and confidence in myself to push my career forward.

I miss:

Having a regular way of venting my thoughts. Often, when I finally get out with the few friends that I trust, I just explode with energy once I get going. Which makes me feel a little crazy.

 

[Adam88]

I miss feeling normal.

 

[Pasha Selim]

I miss what I never had: genuine love.

 

[SadRabbit]

Hummm...if it is now...i miss the feel of cold hard cash...(sorry, i am quite broke).
But generally, I just miss the feeling of being loved and loving others =(.

 

[lingo]

Playing time which I had when I was young.

 

[AimeeLou84]

I miss the hope that I used to have that things would be better.I'd love to say I miss the confidence to do things but I have never had the confidence to just go out by myself and not care about anything.Even as a kid I was always worried about what everybody else thought about me as I was really shy.

The main thing I miss now though is the feeling that I'm desirable.That being with me is enough for a person because they feel I'm the most special person in the world.I did have that but I wasn't in love with the person who felt that way about me.I left him because I thought I deserved real love and he deserved somebody who loved him. Now I'm in a relationship where the guy doesn't need me.I'm not his everything and he doesn't see me the same way as my ex did.So yeah I miss feeling special