well...Ive been hurted. Really really really bad.
The thing of it is...my step father is very abusive towards me.
Decades of him filling my head with negative stuff. i actaully had a negative
inner vioce of him running in my head. I felt really bad about myself.
I love my father...but nothing I did was good enough for him.
I did alot of love earning stuff so that my father would approve of me.
To this day he still hasnt said one nice thing about me...
So it kind of played itself out with some of the women I got involved with.
Some of them treated me just like my father. In a mess up kind of way
all of the negative stuff was manifesting itself in my life over and over again.
It was familar to me....It was kind of like I got infected with some wierd freaken
negative dis-ease. For years and years i was on some sort of auto pilot to that.
And a lot of it also centers around sassy and I....
There's alot of healing sassy and I are going through.
I hated her just the same as I hated my father.
Yet i love her more than anything.
She probably feels the same towards me.
There you have it....The contras. The love (positive) The hate (negative).
I must choose....
Everyday and almost every moment...I must choose.
I choose to love instead of hate....No matter how hard it is for me.
I choose to love Sassy and love me.
One of the biggest challenge i had was ALLOWING myself to feel Sassy's love for me.
She loves me very much...but Ive close myself off for years becuase i felt hurted.
Wheather Sassy and I get back together...Idk?
The what if i kick her ass out of bed on our wedding day.hahahahaa
I do know i cant carry on with the hate...I'll simply push other people or women away
from me or carry my hate into another relationship.
And i dont feel very good when i hate ...at the very least.
Anyway...the graditude and being appriciative isnt new stuff to me.
Gratitude is a state of HAVING....The more gratful you are...the more you get.
It gets better and better. It worked for well in the past.
The out with the old and in with the new...too
It's just that I dont apply all my knowlege and the things I know.
Anyway..i lost my truck while I was in TX. I worked my ass off for that truck..
But I wasnt too pissed about it.
Ive also been practicing the law of manifestations stuff...an experiment so that I may see results.
it was kind of like a joke or whatever (peaceful feelings) kind of thing.
I just told myself I was going to get a TransAm..becuase Sassy and I had one when we were younger.
And Sassy had joking say...if we get another sports car...get a transAm.hahaha
Here I have it..a transAm. i didnt reallly had to work for it.
I got it oneway or the other....
saasy gets angery at me sometimes...becuase Im a spoil brat.
WHAT IF I JUST GET WHATEVER I WANT and ALLOW MYSELF TO RECIEVE IT? lmao