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Eireann13
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I came to this site with the hopes of meeting people in similar situations as myself. So far I’ve encountered some unpleasantness which in addition to already feeling horrible about myself, these things that are said only magnify my negative outlook on things. It makes me think of leaving this site as I don’t need more toxic nonsense in my life.
No one knows me or where I’ve been to justify the things said, the judgement, the assumptions or the condescension. I am not naive to think that when I came here it would be all rainbows and roses. I knew there would be people who live just hurt others to make themselves feel better because it’s easy when you hide behind a screen ...I know these people exist. I just wish they wouldn’t.
My problems are my own, no one can know them to the full extent unless they have lived the exact same life. So to assume certain things about me from only reading a sentence or two about my life is horrible. Then to offer ill advised advice is also sickening. I came here to chat, not to feel more hateful towards myself.
Perhaps my skin is not thick enough to be here, maybe it is, but from I what I know someone shouldn't have to have thick skin to be anywhere, anywhere where they should feel safe. I don’t want to be judged or belittled by strangers; I get that enough in my real life without being in a place like this, having people who think they are above everyone looking down on others.
Maybe these people have more issues if they feel the need to bring others down to lift themselves up. Bully’s are always the weakest and fall the hardest. Know-it-alls eventually get put in their place. I feel sorry for those people who make others small to make themselves bigger.
I also have to wonder about those people who give ill advised advice, did they get their Ph.D at Costco? Until you’ve actually received a real Ph.D or M.D from an Ivy or the like, stop telling others how to run their lives.
No one knows me or where I’ve been to justify the things said, the judgement, the assumptions or the condescension. I am not naive to think that when I came here it would be all rainbows and roses. I knew there would be people who live just hurt others to make themselves feel better because it’s easy when you hide behind a screen ...I know these people exist. I just wish they wouldn’t.
My problems are my own, no one can know them to the full extent unless they have lived the exact same life. So to assume certain things about me from only reading a sentence or two about my life is horrible. Then to offer ill advised advice is also sickening. I came here to chat, not to feel more hateful towards myself.
Perhaps my skin is not thick enough to be here, maybe it is, but from I what I know someone shouldn't have to have thick skin to be anywhere, anywhere where they should feel safe. I don’t want to be judged or belittled by strangers; I get that enough in my real life without being in a place like this, having people who think they are above everyone looking down on others.
Maybe these people have more issues if they feel the need to bring others down to lift themselves up. Bully’s are always the weakest and fall the hardest. Know-it-alls eventually get put in their place. I feel sorry for those people who make others small to make themselves bigger.
I also have to wonder about those people who give ill advised advice, did they get their Ph.D at Costco? Until you’ve actually received a real Ph.D or M.D from an Ivy or the like, stop telling others how to run their lives.