When's The Last Time You Got Rejected?

[Jesse]

Tell us your story.

I was just rejected on my birthday. (october 23rd). I asked a girl the night before the 23rd if she'd like to go with me to a movie the next day. She knew it was my birthday. She said she'd go and to text her the next day. Well Friday on my birthday I wake up around 2 pm and start getting ready. I texted her to see if it was still on. She said she wasn't feeling well and couldn't go.

I was ok with it I guess. I went to the movie by myself.

I saw on her facebook page later that she was "at the game freezing" waiting on it to start. Guess she started feeling better.


So what's your story?

 

[h i]

thats harsh.

i quit trying stuff like that.


i like my friend. we talk daily and share stuff. she has my video camera now. were good friends, but i want it to be more. shes says shes not romantic. questions if she ever wants to get married. its weird that shes more guy like then me. im all emotional, crushing, remembering dates, flirting, trusting, etc. shes not like that at all. lol. but were cool. oh well. thats about as crushed as i get...

 

[SophiaGrace]

I texted her to see if it was still on. She said she wasn't feeling well and couldn't go.

I was ok with it I guess. I went to the movie by myself.

I saw on her facebook page later that she was "at the game freezing" waiting on it to start. Guess she started feeling better.


So what's your story?

o____o Well that was rude what the girl did to you...

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Hmn last time I got rejected...

I actually cant remember. Either i've stopped feeling dissapointed or i've stopped trying. I'm not sure which of the two has occured.

I feel my social life is ok. I have TONS of online friends and a few friends irl that i see every once in a great while.

It's just enough to keep me happy.

If i do something with someone at least once a month, i'm happy. True story.

Does that make me odd?

 

[Jesse]

I texted her to see if it was still on. She said she wasn't feeling well and couldn't go.

I was ok with it I guess. I went to the movie by myself.

I saw on her facebook page later that she was "at the game freezing" waiting on it to start. Guess she started feeling better.


So what's your story?

o____o Well that was rude what the girl did to you...

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Hmn last time I got rejected...

I actually cant remember. Either i've stopped feeling dissapointed or i've stopped trying. I'm not sure which of the two has occured.

I feel my social life is ok. I have TONS of online friends and a few friends irl that i see every once in a great while.

It's just enough to keep me happy.

If i do something with someone at least once a month, i'm happy. True story.

Does that make me odd?

No that doesn't make you odd. People need different levels of interaction.

That girl.. that's the kind of thing I was telling you about Sophia. They just don't seem to want to hang out. I don't know why, but that's the kind of thing I get all the time.

 

[SophiaGrace]

I texted her to see if it was still on. She said she wasn't feeling well and couldn't go.

I was ok with it I guess. I went to the movie by myself.

I saw on her facebook page later that she was "at the game freezing" waiting on it to start. Guess she started feeling better.


So what's your story?

o____o Well that was rude what the girl did to you...

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Hmn last time I got rejected...

I actually cant remember. Either i've stopped feeling dissapointed or i've stopped trying. I'm not sure which of the two has occured.

I feel my social life is ok. I have TONS of online friends and a few friends irl that i see every once in a great while.

It's just enough to keep me happy.

If i do something with someone at least once a month, i'm happy. True story.

Does that make me odd?

No that doesn't make you odd. People need different levels of interaction.

That girl.. that's the kind of thing I was telling you about Sophia. They just don't seem to want to hang out. I don't know why, but that's the kind of thing I get all the time.

People are strange odd creatures sometimes. They dont know what they miss or why they do the things they do. Life is confuzzling, so are people.

Roll wid it homie! Eventually you'll find a home-girl that's into you.

If at first you dont succeed, try, try again. (of course under certain circumstances this could be considered stalking so dont overdo it :club: )

 

[Jesse]

lol. One day it'll happen. I'm sure.

 

[jjam]

I can't remember. I don't make many attempts. What few I have made have been successful, and I probably could have lot more success if I made the attempts. The problem with making attempts is somehow, someway I either sense or discover that she has a partner already. I run into a lot of women like that, and that's why there are so few attempts.

 

[eleven]

Tell us your story.

I was just rejected on my birthday. (october 23rd). I asked a girl the night before the 23rd if she'd like to go with me to a movie the next day. She knew it was my birthday. She said she'd go and to text her the next day. Well Friday on my birthday I wake up around 2 pm and start getting ready. I texted her to see if it was still on. She said she wasn't feeling well and couldn't go.

I was ok with it I guess. I went to the movie by myself.

I saw on her facebook page later that she was "at the game freezing" waiting on it to start. Guess she started feeling better.


So what's your story?

A girl just like a guy wont generally interact with someone on a level that wont lead to any sort of romantic behavior if they arent interested. It would simply be a waste of their time at least in their eyes. If they arent interested in you like that then why would they want to hang out with you in that type of setting in the first place?

For people true romantic relationships come above all else in the forms of all other interactions. Its simple biology I would say the only thing that would be in the same realm of importance as a romance for someone would be their own children but not always in that order. As long as the kids have a babysitter then any restrictions to someones inhibitions might as well be out the window.

You should have seen that coming if a girl wants to be with you like that then she will make just as many attempts to make it happen as you. People that are mutually interested in each other romantically will become just that in a romantic encounter much sooner than later.

Overall it seems your in one of those 'acquaintance' mode with this person. Almost worse than being a close friend which i also think is pointless with people of the opposite sex outside of a work related environment.

For me i really have no desire to interact with the opposite sex in a pure 'friend' only sense thats what my guy friends are for. People may say im a pig for thinking this but really dont most people of the opposite sex generally socialise because maybe at least one person has a thought that it might lead somewhere?

Its sad what happened to you but trust me it was a completely normal in how it happened depending on the circumstances.

 

[Jesse]

Tell us your story.

I was just rejected on my birthday. (october 23rd). I asked a girl the night before the 23rd if she'd like to go with me to a movie the next day. She knew it was my birthday. She said she'd go and to text her the next day. Well Friday on my birthday I wake up around 2 pm and start getting ready. I texted her to see if it was still on. She said she wasn't feeling well and couldn't go.

I was ok with it I guess. I went to the movie by myself.

I saw on her facebook page later that she was "at the game freezing" waiting on it to start. Guess she started feeling better.


So what's your story?

A girl just like a guy wont generally interact with someone on a level that wont lead to any sort of romantic behavior if they arent interested. It would simply be a waste of their time at least in their eyes. If they arent interested in you like that then why would they want to hang out with you in that type of setting in the first place?

For people true romantic relationships come above all else in the forms of all other interactions. Its simple biology I would say the only thing that would be in the same realm of importance as a romance for someone would be their own children but not always in that order. As long as the kids have a babysitter then any restrictions to someones inhibitions might as well be out the window.

You should have seen that coming if a girl wants to be with you like that then she will make just as many attempts to make it happen as you. People that are mutually interested in each other romantically will become just that in a romantic encounter much sooner than later.

Overall it seems your in one of those 'acquaintance' mode with this person. Almost worse than being a close friend which i also think is pointless with people of the opposite sex outside of a work related environment.

For me i really have no desire to interact with the opposite sex in a pure 'friend' only sense thats what my guy friends are for. People may say im a pig for thinking this but really dont most people of the opposite sex generally socialise because maybe at least one person has a thought that it might lead somewhere?

Its sad what happened to you but trust me it was a completely normal in how it happened depending on the circumstances.

That's the thing, I seem to be stuck in acquaintance mode with all women I like.

 

[Aedammair]

Last weekend I tried for a date with a girl I have been kinda been crushin on. Talked to a female friend about it. She told me that the girl was going with her to watch New Moon. I thought I would try for it but my friend told me she would test the waters and see if it was a good idea. I told her specifically not do the kid thing of having my friend ask my crush out for me. Well it tanked. Don't know what was said but the next day at school that both of them avoided me and I couldn't get a hold of my friend. I got the message. Good thing was that I wasn't head over heels for this girl so I think I am going to be alright.

Aedammair

 

[It was Mine]

Last weekend I tried for a date with a girl I have been kinda been crushin on. Talked to a female friend about it. She told me that the girl was going with her to watch New Moon. I thought I would try for it but my friend told me she would test the waters and see if it was a good idea. I told her specifically not do the kid thing of having my friend ask my crush out for me. Well it tanked. Don't know what was said but the next day at school that both of them avoided me and I couldn't get a hold of my friend. I got the message. Good thing was that I wasn't head over heels for this girl so I think I am going to be alright.

Aedammair

You know I told a girl I liked her once and she avoided me all through out school. HA some people are ridiculous. I was more embarrass for her because she was unable to say "sorry i just don't feel the same." instead avoided everything. says a lot about personality and morals for that matter.

 

[Brian]

I had my first real date a couple weeks ago. She said I could call if I wanted...called, texted a few times, no answer to anything.

I would really rather people just come out and say they aren't too keen on me instead of ignoring me.

 

[PoWer2tHePeOpLE]

I had my first real date a couple weeks ago. She said I could call if I wanted...called, texted a few times, no answer to anything.

I would really rather people just come out and say they aren't too keen on me instead of ignoring me.

****! that really bites dude. you're a good man brian, honest and direct, you really deserve the same in return.

 

[viviana]

i've been getting rejected a lot lately,
more like silently and secretely than directly. the story goes like that. i kept seeing this spanish dude who works at the same mall i work at, he would check me out everytime i pass his store, or on the bus cause we take the same transportation home. but one night i saw him talking to that girl and then i saw that the girl had a kid with her, then the little girl ask where is daddy going, when the dude was making his way to the back of the bus. that was confusing, i was counting on him to come to me to ask me out one of those days. any way a few weeks ago, the same girl started to work in his store, but last night i saw him fooling around with another one from outside of my store as i was getting off work.

same thing happened with three other guys, and one told me he would come check up on me, and then he disappeared. turn out he was just a temp, he wasn't gonna work there permanently like me

why do i keep getting my hopes up when a guy check me out, and then they end up finding a girlfriend from elsewhere. am i not good enough? what is this?

 

[Coverage]

i've been getting rejected a lot lately,
more like silently and secretely than directly. the story goes like that. i kept seeing this spanish dude who works at the same mall i work at, he would check me out everytime i pass his store, or on the bus cause we take the same transportation home. but one night i saw him talking to that girl and then i saw that the girl had a kid with her, then the little girl ask where is daddy going, when the dude was making his way to the back of the bus. that was confusing, i was counting on him to come to me to ask me out one of those days. any way a few weeks ago, the same girl started to work in his store, but last night i saw him fooling around with another one from outside of my store as i was getting off work.

same thing happened with three other guys, and one told me he would come check up on me, and then he disappeared. turn out he was just a temp, he wasn't gonna work there permanently like me

why do i keep getting my hopes up when a guy check me out, and then they end up finding a girlfriend from elsewhere. am i not good enough? what is this?

Well that first guy you mentioned doesnt sound like one you should get involved with anyway. As for other guys I would advise not taking it as personal if they dont ask you out.

It depends on the situation but alot of guys will check out a girl, however will never talk or really approach her because they dont feel comfortable or confident.

Other guys may not be looking for a girl, but are still willing to look at ones they think are attractive.

I dont know how much interaction you had with these other guys, but it can never hurt to talk and throw hints at a guy you like, if not even ask them out yourself. Some guys need that little extra push from the girl before they make a move.

 

[cheaptrickfan]

The last time I was rejected? Last year, almost exactly. I don't even know if this really counts as rejection, but this guy & I had been on the verge of getting involved, with some of that flirty circling each other etc, and all of a sudden he blocked my email, my phone numbers, completely cut off contact with me cold turkey.

I have no idea what I did wrong (if anything) he could very well have been married and his wife was about to find out or what, but still.

So, that left a really bad taste in my mouth and my efforts at diving back into the dating cesspool this past year have been half-hearted at best. Now, I am pretty much resigned to the idea of being alone for the rest of my life.

 

[viviana]

jey thanks man,
if i really really like him i will go and throw a little hint.
yeah some guys are not even attractive to me, but i still wish they'd check me out instead. some others are just uhh, so unattractive and they approach me with direct questions.. i hate that, but i have to say noooooooooooooooo to them. then again i am cursed..

i've been getting rejected a lot lately,
more like silently and secretely than directly. the story goes like that. i kept seeing this spanish dude who works at the same mall i work at, he would check me out everytime i pass his store, or on the bus cause we take the same transportation home. but one night i saw him talking to that girl and then i saw that the girl had a kid with her, then the little girl ask where is daddy going, when the dude was making his way to the back of the bus. that was confusing, i was counting on him to come to me to ask me out one of those days. any way a few weeks ago, the same girl started to work in his store, but last night i saw him fooling around with another one from outside of my store as i was getting off work.

same thing happened with three other guys, and one told me he would come check up on me, and then he disappeared. turn out he was just a temp, he wasn't gonna work there permanently like me

why do i keep getting my hopes up when a guy check me out, and then they end up finding a girlfriend from elsewhere. am i not good enough? what is this?

Well that first guy you mentioned doesnt sound like one you should get involved with anyway. As for other guys I would advise not taking it as personal if they dont ask you out.

It depends on the situation but alot of guys will check out a girl, however will never talk or really approach her because they dont feel comfortable or confident.

Other guys may not be looking for a girl, but are still willing to look at ones they think are attractive.

I dont know how much interaction you had with these other guys, but it can never hurt to talk and throw hints at a guy you like, if not even ask them out yourself. Some guys need that little extra push from the girl before they make a move.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

hahahhahaaaa.....up until a couple of months ago.

There's a woman I know that I'll run into every so often. We are friends but there's
an attraction between her and I. We had lunch with her a couple of times ealier this years.
It's either timming or situations. I've known her for over a decade.
She used to e-mail or call me all the time. She cried when
she told me she had to let me go....At least she spoke to me to let me know.

Then I used to call another woman. She just talk and talk.
She didn't know how to tell me "NO".
Having a conversation with her became retarded....
hahhaha...I caught her checking me out the last time I ran into her.

Then i actually had an on-line GF for a while. We do the vioce chat everyday.
It was wierd...It felt like I was married to her. I'd go to work and come home
and talk to her everyday and did she. It was like clock work...
We would actaully have arguments and get piss-off at each other.lol
I think it scared the honeysuckle out of both of us becuase of the on-line stuff or
the relationship needed to go further.
I came home one to a dear Dude e-mail..lol

Then I asked Steel for his checking account #
I needed it for a couple of russian brides..(Ananithasia) or whatever the fcuk her name is..
Steel totally rejected my ass. That was a total heart breaker..man.

Then I actaully asked a total stranger out that I didn't know in person.
She actaully said "YES"..but she stood me up..lmao
So..I figure I'd stay away from brunettes and go back to blondes...
hahaha...I called her a couple of months ago and actaully had a conversation with her.

Then I actaully got a date from an on-line site...
She freaken spoke to me for a couple of months
WTF she had me all fucken work up..setted up a date then she totally flaked it...(fucken blondes...lmAO)

Then someone i love very much step into my life again a couple of months ago.
She asked me out , btw..lol
She stole my heart many, many yeARS ago...
So...getting rejected by women and especailly by Steel didn't fucken hurted...
I'm a heartless basturd..lmao

 

[Luna]

I'm going to ask a guy that I met through a family friend...to go skiing with me.
I expect that he'll likely reject me.
I've been rejected so often that slowly...but surely...I am becoming used to it.

 

[DrawingCircleCircles]

I was rejected during Halloween, but that was because I was being too much of a jerk. At least it teaches me where to draw the line. I was trying to hit on this girl in a police officer outfit, and made a joke about her hand cuffs. The conversation went on for a couple more minutes talking about the usual "so where you from" and "who you here with". Then, I dont know if it was the alcohol or ... yeah probably it was the alcohol... I offended her by saying she didn't look like she belonged there. I just said it the wrong way. She left me while I went back with my group.

As far as asking on date rejections, I plan to ask this one girl out for some ice broomball this weekend. So we'll see how this one goes...