M_also_lonely
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Today is Diwali, a festival of lights, a festival of victory of light over darkness. But seems that the light has ignored me, just the way people do.
On this festival people celebrate joyfully with their families and friends, eat great food, buy expensive clothes, chill out, have fun, but it seems that I do not have that authority of doing that.
I just don't belong. I want someone to ask me to come with her/him to celebrate, but everyone is so busy with their special ones.
I haven't spoken to anyone around me since four days.
Today, women make rangoli in front of the houses and my mother made one, which took nearly four hours. But as I was walking, my leg accidentally slipped and I fell on it and all the design was spoiled. She looked angrily at me and then told me not to go with them for dinner. They went for a dinner at a restaurant with other relatives.
In the mean time, I decided to correct the design and with my hands shaking, as I started people from neighborhood kept glancing at me as if I am doing something weird. I drew the worst drawing one could ever see, which was evident from the giggles of neighbors.
A lady came to see it and sarcastically told her 10 year old kid to help me. They all laughed. I went away and cried for an hour.
As my parents returned, my mother came to my room telling how they were ashamed of what I did. I cried for hours. Nobody asked if I had something for food or not.
I too want to celebrate Diwali with happiness. With friends coming to my house, wishing me a happy new year. Or having a sister who wants to take photos with me. Even I want a girlfriend who asks me if I am fine. I want my father to be proud of me, but with this luck of mine, it seems impossible.
I read somewhere tips to be happy when you are lonely. I was following them regularly. It seemed that I was becoming happier. Soon I noticed the rebound effect. I cried that night more than I would, realizing, "Whats new? Life is still like hell."
I want to be happy too. I want to have a lot of friends. I want my parents to love me. I want my sister to love me. I want my teachers to understand me. I want to have a girlfriend, who thinks about me, who cares for me, etc.I want to go to parties and picnics and malls and dates with her, then sit at the sea shore with her like couples do. I want to be valued too.
I respect everyone around me. I speak kindly, even though I never receive a smile back.
I wanted to celebrate this Diwali too, like those happy people. I wanted my parents and sister to wish me too, but they didn't.
If I am good, being good is considered boring, stupid, outdated, etc. When I show the opposite side in me, it is considered rude,and senseless.
Why?
Whats my fault?
Why doesn't one person come to me and say "Hey, come and join us?"
Why do I feel empty?
Am I so cruel?
On this festival people celebrate joyfully with their families and friends, eat great food, buy expensive clothes, chill out, have fun, but it seems that I do not have that authority of doing that.
I just don't belong. I want someone to ask me to come with her/him to celebrate, but everyone is so busy with their special ones.
I haven't spoken to anyone around me since four days.
Today, women make rangoli in front of the houses and my mother made one, which took nearly four hours. But as I was walking, my leg accidentally slipped and I fell on it and all the design was spoiled. She looked angrily at me and then told me not to go with them for dinner. They went for a dinner at a restaurant with other relatives.
In the mean time, I decided to correct the design and with my hands shaking, as I started people from neighborhood kept glancing at me as if I am doing something weird. I drew the worst drawing one could ever see, which was evident from the giggles of neighbors.
A lady came to see it and sarcastically told her 10 year old kid to help me. They all laughed. I went away and cried for an hour.
As my parents returned, my mother came to my room telling how they were ashamed of what I did. I cried for hours. Nobody asked if I had something for food or not.
I too want to celebrate Diwali with happiness. With friends coming to my house, wishing me a happy new year. Or having a sister who wants to take photos with me. Even I want a girlfriend who asks me if I am fine. I want my father to be proud of me, but with this luck of mine, it seems impossible.
I read somewhere tips to be happy when you are lonely. I was following them regularly. It seemed that I was becoming happier. Soon I noticed the rebound effect. I cried that night more than I would, realizing, "Whats new? Life is still like hell."
I want to be happy too. I want to have a lot of friends. I want my parents to love me. I want my sister to love me. I want my teachers to understand me. I want to have a girlfriend, who thinks about me, who cares for me, etc.I want to go to parties and picnics and malls and dates with her, then sit at the sea shore with her like couples do. I want to be valued too.
I respect everyone around me. I speak kindly, even though I never receive a smile back.
I wanted to celebrate this Diwali too, like those happy people. I wanted my parents and sister to wish me too, but they didn't.
If I am good, being good is considered boring, stupid, outdated, etc. When I show the opposite side in me, it is considered rude,and senseless.
Why?
Whats my fault?
Why doesn't one person come to me and say "Hey, come and join us?"
Why do I feel empty?
Am I so cruel?