ardour
Well known loser
WildernessWildChild said:That's a comeback? It's just as lame as the topic...
I am very lame and you're still offended by the topic.
WildernessWildChild said:That's a comeback? It's just as lame as the topic...
kamya said:As white males we are obviously the most privileged in society. The only way we could possibly be single with all of this privilege is if there is something terribly wrong with us.
kamya said:It's a way of explaining why single middle aged men are sometimes seen the way the OP is complaining about. I don't really care if it amuses you or not. I'm not denying the privilege but I do think that people like to trivialize any problems that we might have. Same with how many legitimate men's rights issues are trivialized and laughed at in general too I guess.
And honestly, anything I post on this forum that is in the "up for debate" section really says fresia all about who I am. Half the time I say honeysuckle just to try to get different points of view. Btw, I'm guessing you aren't a white middle aged male right?
rdor said:I brought race into it because Protestant Anglo-Saxon derived society lacks a sense of community. Single men are kind of cut adrift, even stigmatized in this non-culture.
That might sound a tad trite, like it's exoticising other ethnicities by assuming they have greater social cohesion.
frey12 said:Also OP i never really think those things about middle aged white men. I tend to have a disdain for rich white men which is very different than an age attachment(see iraq/afghan war+financial crisis). Mind you white men in general are a huge issue when trying to fight for equality. The people with the least ability to have empathy for a minority and women are white dudes. Not calling you monsters, but politically white males are very frustrating to deal with.
rdor said:frey12 said:Also OP i never really think those things about middle aged white men. I tend to have a disdain for rich white men which is very different than an age attachment(see iraq/afghan war+financial crisis). Mind you white men in general are a huge issue when trying to fight for equality. The people with the least ability to have empathy for a minority and women are white dudes. Not calling you monsters, but politically white males are very frustrating to deal with.
getting off topic.
To be honest it's statements like these that make me want to throw my lot in with Kamya. Fighting for.. empathy around.. ? Specifics please. Minority stereotyping, as nasty as it is, doesn't prove white privilege as still a pervasive force that equally benefits all white males. I live in New Zealand by the way...
frey12 said:Privilege:
Privilege is simply the concept that a person with less ism effecting them has it slightly less stress to deal with. So if a person was a woman, who was gay, lower class, was born in Mexico, had an Spanish accent, and was some how a US citizen. The honeysuckle she would have to deal with would be a lot worse than say i would have to deal with.
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Privilege is merely recognizing you don't have to deal with as much negative honeysuckle as other groups do.
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