Who has virgin lips?

[alonewanderer]

you can kiss me, fuzzy glorious kisses :3

 

[fortasse]

Well duh. Alot of my problems would be solved, but I don't even know where to begin. And I "fall in love" so fast that its sometimes better to not have guy friends.

Well, I can't tell where to begin, but I can tell you that when it comes to "falling in love" with guy friends you just gotta push through the feelings. It'll take practice, but if you learn to have a better handle on separating your feelings of "falling in love" from "I want to be this guy's friend" you'll eventually get a hang of it.

 

[unlucky in life]

i am 29 years old female i never got my first kiss i don't even know how.i never single boyfriend in life i am still trying to solve that problem with no success.i never even held hands with guy. they think i am diseased or some thing .i know how you feel how depressing it to feel so unhappy and deprived of physical affection some thing i craved for years but never get it. and other they no problem finding love every 2nd week they can pick and choose i,d be lucky to glance but i get is cold blooded rejection it stings those same find love all the time.but the vitum never finds love the guy rejected me its so not fair it really is so not fair

so you not alone trust me on that.

 

[allanh]

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[NormalishGayGuy]

I, as well, have 'virgin lips'...as well as virgin-everything-else. And no remedy in sight, of course.

I just get to be the loser with nothing, except of course, getting a lot of salt rubbed in my wounds from those who get everything (and take it for granted). And they're always around me, for some goddamned reason.

 

[Badjedidude]

Only one way to make your lips not virgin anymore.

Get out there and fuckin' do it.

 

[grainofrice24]

I don't intend to kiss anyone until I'm at the altar, so I have "virgin lips." Doesn't bother me much.

:club:

WTF is wrong with you?!?! Are you serious?! Tell me you're joking...

 

[Stride]

my lips are so virgin they've received the immaculate conception hahahaha

/drunk

 

[IgnoredOne]

:club:

WTF is wrong with you?!?! Are you serious?! Tell me you're joking...

What is wrong with wanting to genuinely honor the concept of a wedding? Are you actualy condemning someone for being reserved? That seems as equally silly as condemning someone for kissing a thousand; its her body and if anything, I respect her more for her reserve.

 

[Haz]

eh, once you have a kiss or even sex you'll find the world didn't change one bit

all you'll get is the perspective from over the other side of the fence that there really isn't another perspective

 

[Badjedidude]

What is wrong with wanting to genuinely honor the concept of a wedding? Are you actualy condemning someone for being reserved? That seems as equally silly as condemning someone for kissing a thousand; its her body and if anything, I respect her more for her reserve.

If you ask me, it seems like it's more a matter of being realistic.

If you tell someone (on a date, perhaps) that you've never kissed before and are saving it for marriage... it's probably most likely that you're not going to get very far on the date. It can be hard to meet someone when you're that reserved, to the point that you won't even KISS someone.

I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with saving your first kiss for marriage... but it's just not very realistic in a real-world scenario. It's like little girls having princess-wedding fantasies. Sure, it doesn't hurt anyone to dream... but it's just sorta not the way the world actually works.

The reason I'd suggest that you shouldn't save a kiss for marriage is that it would be easier to GET to that point (marriage) if you're willing to kiss someone first.

 

[grainofrice24]

^^ What he said =)

 

[IgnoredOne]

If you ask me, it seems like it's more a matter of being realistic.

If you tell someone (on a date, perhaps) that you've never kissed before and are saving it for marriage... it's probably most likely that you're not going to get very far on the date. It can be hard to meet someone when you're that reserved, to the point that you won't even KISS someone.

Well, there's nothing inherently wrong, which is important.

For me, the idea of a girl who hasn't been with anyone else is, if anything, intensely alluring and I believe that's not an unusual draw either. And I believe it is entirely possible to be sexually reserved without being socially reserved, personally.

 

[lonelyfairy]

I have! No first kiss.

 

[chrisii]

26 and still have "virgin-lips' and on top of that virgin - everything else. Maybe it's just my looks, I don't know, I try to at least half-way decent but I am in no position to judge that.

Apart from that what I would really like is a nice hug from a girl who actually does like me instead of just "sort of like / I just wanna be friends" type. I do have someone who I really like but from my perspective the feelings are not mutual. I can't do anything about that, I guess.

 

[louMcntire]

I do. I do. I'll be turning 20 soon and I've never been kissed. *sniffle*
Nice knowing I'm not alone. Thank you

 

[Badjedidude]

For me, the idea of a girl who hasn't been with anyone else is, if anything, intensely alluring and I believe that's not an unusual draw either. And I believe it is entirely possible to be sexually reserved without being socially reserved, personally.

Well, there is always the "SHE'S A VIRGIN!!!" thing. I totally agree with that.

But... that doesn't mean she's never KISSED before.

I guess it all depends on the level of sexuality you attribute to a kiss. Personally, I wouldn't necessarily consider a kiss to be an act akin to sex itself. It's a lesser way of showing attracted sexual interest, in my opinion. I guess what I'm trying to say is that kissing has situational intimacy for me. I've kissed woman-friends on the lips before just as a hello or goodbye (not making out or as a precursor to sex). But I'd also kiss a woman on the lips when we ARE having sex.

I just don't think it's realistic to save kissing for marriage, that's all.

*shrug* That's my personal opinion.

Like I said before, though, there's nothing wrong with it. I just don't agree that it's gonna work out that well.

 

[Ak5]

15 years old, and I still am....

I still have time though

 

[Pomato]

I'm 20 and have never been kissed. And WOW this thread just reminded me of one of my worst nightmares. Ending up like a male version of Susan Boyle, except WORSE. Omfg "I've never been kissed." I'll be saying that when I'm 50. And I'll be wallowing away somewhere in a dark room doing some strange work that I don't like for a company I don't want to be at. And obviously I won't be married or have kids. And my parents will be long dead. My last happy days in life will have ended in my 30s when my Dad died of a stroke and my mom of cancer. Not that I was too happy then. But now I have nobody. I'll just live paycheck to paycheck and drink cheap Schnaps. I'll have a dingy little apartment too. My spare time will consist of wanking myself off every night in my rat infested bedroom to some crappy porn or a hot fb picture of a girl I met 25 years ago that still gets me off cause I'm a creep. And then I might just end it. Christmas morning 2041. No wait, I'm a secularist. Might as well keep my principles 'till the end. Make it new years eve. Don't know how I'll do it yet, but knowing me it'll probably end up being some drug overdose or something where I don't have to face myself or my true feelings. My last thought will be of some crush I had on a girl I met one night while drunk in a bowling alley somewhere between one crappy job and another in the summer of 2019 - She actually seemed to like me back, and I thought that was the one year when things might go right for once. Of course they didn't. Bye world.

 

[ericwalter366]

I slept with faith and found a corpse in my arms on awakening; I drank and danced all night with doubt and found her a virgin in the morning.


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