I don't know how long this post will be, and sorry for any grammar or spelling mistakes in advance. I woke up recently, and English is not my native language, so mistakes may (and will) happen. Also, I don't know if anyone will actually read it or respond to it, but I want to write this post. I have to write it.
Even thought I was always a shy and lonely person, it was just until recently when I ever felt alone. I guess there is a huge difference when you are alone by choice or when you are simply abandoned, like a tool that people can use whenever they need you. That is what exactly happened with me. I'm still not that old (I'm 23 actually), but when I was younger, I was more naive. I thought of people as my friends, even thought all they have done is betrayed me. When they needed me, I was there. When I needed someone, I had no one. Not even my parents. They didn't really care about how I feel, what I want; all they cared about is the results and the future role of me in the society in general.
High School, as you may have guessed it already, was the hell. Not just because of the aforementioned reasons, but if someone didn't "liked" me, they openly hated me, and abused me. Because of that, slowly, but surely I had trust issues and started to become a closed person who didn't even allowed any person nearby himself. There were people who really wanted to be my real friends, there were even girls who wanted to know the real me - I tossed them away, because I thought that they are not different from those fake people I had experience with.
College was a bit better, but not that different. I already know if a person was just trying to use me, or really wanted to know who I am. Because of who I became, I didn't really develop any deep relationships - or at least, I didn't want to develop any. For the first time in my life, I fell in love. I really thought that there was one person who is different, and who may actually "heal" me, or at least someone whom I can open my heart to. But I was wrong. I completely misunderstood that person (and somewhat the situation either), and nothing happened from that. I didn't even want anything to happen from that point on.
While I had some dates from that point on, I still never really had a "relationship" as I imagine it in a classic way. Even though there were people who were interested in me and vice versa, somehow it still didn't work out. Maybe I was the reason why they didn't work, I don't know. What I really know is that I slowly, but surely started to become that person I was, again. To the top it off, not only I dropped out college (left it because I didn't agree with the recent "changes" they had - even though I have a Bachelor's Degree, I didn't have my Master's Degree), but I still have no job - which I really wanted to have for now on.
I really wanted to become an artist. I am a composer, and I have been doing it since I was really young. I have been training for it for a while, but failures after failures just took my mood and motivation to do anything at all. To make it worse, I even have been "betrayed" by my mentor, the Institution Director, who actually promised me that I can work there as a teacher, simply ignored me, then openly declined his offer. Because of that situation, I actually had to move back to my parents' house, which I really, really didn't want to do.
Slowly, but surely, I developed not only anxiety, but symptoms of depression - mainly because of the loneliness I feel. While I have some aquintances I can talk to, and even a few friends too, I still feel like I'm alone in this huge world. And this makes me feel... fallen.
Is there any chance of me rising? Maybe. I did it previously. But I'm not sure if I can do it again... over, and over again. Or did I just thought I actually risen, and I'm still in the deep darkness where I fell?
For the first time in my life, I don't know... I don't know anything.
Should I try to get a job? I tried to, but all I got is rejection, over and over again.
Should I start dating seriously? Even thought I have less trust issues as I had previously in my life, I'm still not sure if I'm ready. Self-esteem problems don't help, either.
I even thought about de-constructing myself and finding my true self. I actually have a hobby I found recently and I enjoy it. Most of my aquintances are from that hobby, but still... I don't know if I have the force of will to do that.
Well, anyways, thank you in advance for those who read it. I really appreciate it.
Even thought I was always a shy and lonely person, it was just until recently when I ever felt alone. I guess there is a huge difference when you are alone by choice or when you are simply abandoned, like a tool that people can use whenever they need you. That is what exactly happened with me. I'm still not that old (I'm 23 actually), but when I was younger, I was more naive. I thought of people as my friends, even thought all they have done is betrayed me. When they needed me, I was there. When I needed someone, I had no one. Not even my parents. They didn't really care about how I feel, what I want; all they cared about is the results and the future role of me in the society in general.
High School, as you may have guessed it already, was the hell. Not just because of the aforementioned reasons, but if someone didn't "liked" me, they openly hated me, and abused me. Because of that, slowly, but surely I had trust issues and started to become a closed person who didn't even allowed any person nearby himself. There were people who really wanted to be my real friends, there were even girls who wanted to know the real me - I tossed them away, because I thought that they are not different from those fake people I had experience with.
College was a bit better, but not that different. I already know if a person was just trying to use me, or really wanted to know who I am. Because of who I became, I didn't really develop any deep relationships - or at least, I didn't want to develop any. For the first time in my life, I fell in love. I really thought that there was one person who is different, and who may actually "heal" me, or at least someone whom I can open my heart to. But I was wrong. I completely misunderstood that person (and somewhat the situation either), and nothing happened from that. I didn't even want anything to happen from that point on.
While I had some dates from that point on, I still never really had a "relationship" as I imagine it in a classic way. Even though there were people who were interested in me and vice versa, somehow it still didn't work out. Maybe I was the reason why they didn't work, I don't know. What I really know is that I slowly, but surely started to become that person I was, again. To the top it off, not only I dropped out college (left it because I didn't agree with the recent "changes" they had - even though I have a Bachelor's Degree, I didn't have my Master's Degree), but I still have no job - which I really wanted to have for now on.
I really wanted to become an artist. I am a composer, and I have been doing it since I was really young. I have been training for it for a while, but failures after failures just took my mood and motivation to do anything at all. To make it worse, I even have been "betrayed" by my mentor, the Institution Director, who actually promised me that I can work there as a teacher, simply ignored me, then openly declined his offer. Because of that situation, I actually had to move back to my parents' house, which I really, really didn't want to do.
Slowly, but surely, I developed not only anxiety, but symptoms of depression - mainly because of the loneliness I feel. While I have some aquintances I can talk to, and even a few friends too, I still feel like I'm alone in this huge world. And this makes me feel... fallen.
Is there any chance of me rising? Maybe. I did it previously. But I'm not sure if I can do it again... over, and over again. Or did I just thought I actually risen, and I'm still in the deep darkness where I fell?
For the first time in my life, I don't know... I don't know anything.
Should I try to get a job? I tried to, but all I got is rejection, over and over again.
Should I start dating seriously? Even thought I have less trust issues as I had previously in my life, I'm still not sure if I'm ready. Self-esteem problems don't help, either.
I even thought about de-constructing myself and finding my true self. I actually have a hobby I found recently and I enjoy it. Most of my aquintances are from that hobby, but still... I don't know if I have the force of will to do that.
Well, anyways, thank you in advance for those who read it. I really appreciate it.