women have it better.

[anime girlboy]

you are single, and you desperately want a relationship.

but as of right now, you are no gender.

which do you choose?

you already know my opinion.

i am male and i think females have it better.

 

[Lonelyheartsxx]

Men have it soo much better!!!
Girls have to worry about everything--being perfect, losing weight, looking beautiful every single day and not one freaking flaw on them, getting pregnant, periods, etc.
but of course if ur a guy ur gonna say girls have it easier.

 

[Unacceptance]

This depends on the kind of relationship you want. If you just want to get laid, women have it the easiest, since the types of guys who also just want to get laid will go for any vagina.

If you are looking for a serious relationship, I would say it's tied. Both genders have todeal with the other gender being full of jackasses and people who just want to get laid.

 

[Antihero]

My replies in this thread sum up my thoughts on the matter somewhat well.

 

[Porman]

The hard part for woman (probably not so much in today's society), is that they have to wait for the guy to approach them.

The hard part for a guy is too gather the courage to do so.

I do however feel girls can walk into relationships alot easier (given that there hot!) because what guy says no for a date with a smokin babe?

 

[Lonesome Crow]

yeah....
I guess in a way woman who plays the part ...as if they have the holy grail between their legs.
A trophy to won. Her love I must earned all she has to do it sit there and look good.

A female have to pick and choose what would be best for her offsprings.

It's built into our genes..As a spicy we can't help it. We are not that different from other
animals when it comes to seeking partners.

 

[Minus]

My replies in this thread sum up my thoughts on the matter somewhat well.

Seemingly quite well.

 

[EveWasFramed]

The hard part for woman is that they have to wait for the guy to approach them.

They do?? Not so, or at least not for THIS woman, lmao!

 

[evanescencefan91]

i say guys have it better, their brains produce more seritionin they're like 100x less hormonal, and guys are much less prone to problems such as depression and anxiety.

 

[Frostburn]

and guys are much less prone to problems such as depression and anxiety.

I feel more manly every time I hear this!

 

[SunWeb]

Women have way better chances to get someone. The only trouble -> if they don't want to. The most crippy thing about women is that they will never end the relationship they don't like before finding someone else (at least most of them).

 

[Silvernight]

I say men have it better. Whereas a female normally should be a "smokin babe" as a previous poster said to even be approached (and what to do for those who for whatever reason aren't? There are quite many.), there is no requirement at all for a guy to look as an epitome of perfection. As long as he's not, e.g. horribly fat or doesn't smell like a ferret, he's good to go. And other arguments have already been mentioned.

 

[SunWeb]

Silvernight
She shouldn't be "smokin babe". She just need to be non smoking girl and drink less than a fish. I have one date with a girl that wasn't good looking, rhhhh, she was bad looking but I wanted she to be my girlfriend.....and know what ?....she rejected. So, no no no. in 9 of 10 cases if the girl wants to, she will have a boyfriend. But the guy no matter want it or not won't get any (I'm not talking about males that most women wants).

 

[Silvernight]

I wouldn't agree with it, Sunweb. By the way, I'm a non-smoker and non-drinker (never consumed alcohol in my life and never felt a slightest inclination to do so, ditto smoking). I don't think I'm that bad-looking either, well, maybe not the hottest chick around, but reasonably ok. But I don't have a boyfriend and never had one either. And do not foresse getting one in any immediate future. Or even a distant future. And I would really like to have one, gee, at least, there'd be someone to go to the cinema with, instead of alone all the time. And do other stuff.

 

[Katia]

I believe any response here is going to be bias.

Either way, women do not have it easy. As a girl it is very easy to be overshadowed by the next girl. Girls have a pressure to stay pretty and thin. Also, as someone earlier said, a lot of girls wait to be approached and guys aren't going to approach a woman that is not pleasing to eyes. Women don't wear make up and fret over clothes all because of their own vanity. Men have a lot to do with it.

Also, if a woman is not outgoing, it might be hard for her to find someone else. The 'shy guy' can be very attractive but the 'shy girl' just never gets noticed. Although this isn't always true.

The media does not help women either with the model like girls posted on the front of every magazine and men always commenting on how such-and-such celebrity is hot. Women have a lot to live up to in society today. Not only to we have to look good, be successful in our careers but we also have to worry about having that wonderful personality to attract the right guy.

Plus, even if a girl does attract a guy, he might just want to use her for his own pleassure.

The nice guy is sometimes hard to find.

Oh and all you men out there, if you think women have it easier than you then I want you to experience 1 day of menstrual cramps then tell me what you think. Those are anything but easy but they sure are reliable to arrive every month.

 

[Silvernight]

Yeah, I'd say Katia summed it up best. I have observed that shy guys are frequently chatted up by girls who, apparently, enjoy trying to get them out of their shell. But a shy girl, unless she is really pleasing to the eye, is out of luck more often than not. She just will never get noticed among other girls who are both easy-going/social and pretty.

 

[anime girlboy]

I believe any response here is going to be bias.

agreed!

Either way, women do not have it easy. As a girl it is very easy to be overshadowed by the next girl. Girls have a pressure to stay pretty and thin.

i naturally want to date someone my own weight(60kg), everybody does. understandably i dont want to date a whale... well not a human whale, dating a whale whale like a blue whale would be pretty awesome actually

Also, as someone earlier said, a lot of girls wait to be approached and guys aren't going to approach a woman that is not pleasing to eyes. Women don't wear make up and fret over clothes all because of their own vanity. Men have a lot to do with it.

men are expected to do all the approaching, yes, which is why sometimes i would rather be a girl! i think a lot more males than females are lonely because females talk heeeaps(a survey of how many words each gender says per day springs to mind) and rely more on their network of friends than males do. also, loneliness itself i think is something of a taboo to talk about in public, and for males its like the equivalent of talking about your ex on a new first date, or telling a girl about a really funny poo that you did one time. really... any guy who talks about emotions is not attractive. we are expected to be stoic and unfaltering at all times. loneliness is always perceived as negativity, whether you're a kind hearted person or not. nobody likes negative people.

anyway to relate this to what you were saying, i would rather be a girl because any girl that approaches a guy is instantly attractive. also you dont have to worry about coming off as creepy.. which is what i worry about sometimes!

Also, if a woman is not outgoing, it might be hard for her to find someone else. The 'shy guy' can be very attractive but the 'shy girl' just never gets noticed. Although this isn't always true.

i guess this is where the bias comes in... i believe the complete opposite, that in fact its the shy guy that never gets noticed. because as you said earlier, its the males that are expected to do the approaching. guys approach shy girls and outgoing girls, but shy guys.. do they approach anyone at all?

men dont give a crap about how many friends a girl has, or what they do for a living, as long as they arent really depressing or a junkie, they are attractive. girls care about how many friends a guy has... ever heard of the term social proof? well, if you're a shy or lonely guy, you have no social proof whatsoever. because you dont have friends and a large support base, you have to show girls you arent creepy or a serial killer or really aggressive.

The media does not help women either with the model like girls posted on the front of every magazine and men always commenting on how such-and-such celebrity is hot. Women have a lot to live up to in society today. Not only to we have to look good, be successful in our careers but we also have to worry about having that wonderful personality to attract the right guy.

you dont need to be perfect!

most of my guy friends actually prefer small breasts.. i know i do. all you have to do is be average looking and have a nice, positive vibe. we dont care about your dress size or makeup or honeysuckle like that.. if we go somewhere with you we will like you a whole lot more if you were interesting and funny and unique.

when i walk from the trainstation to university i walk past thousands of girls, i cant focus on all of them but if i walk for about a kilometre ill see at least 10 that are really pretty. doesnt matter how pretty you are, ill always be attracted to one thats fun and interesting.

Plus, even if a girl does attract a guy, he might just want to use her for his own pleassure.

i think its a myth that guys just want girls for sex... porn doesnt help. it objectifies women, my last girlfriend thought sex was just for pleasure :l

i think most guys want a lot more than sex but the common male preconception is to want nothing but sex. when guys are together there is a tendency for each to attempt to show off and be manlier than the others...

anyway what im saying is that i dont think most men want only sex. we want a lot more. also, if you're in a relationship or you think you're in a 'fling' or whatever, dont be afraid to ask...

The nice guy is sometimes hard to find.

no they're not! they're ******* everywhere! like here! me! (hi!) lol.

just forget about his friends and focus on him... approach a guy that is good looking, make a comment about the surroundings or make something up like where do i go to get to this train station im lost? etc make sure he's not a creep or scary, if hes fun ask for his number! there!

 

[SunWeb]

anime girlboy is right.

to Silvernight
Believe me, noone wants to date me and you wouldn't cuz I am like .....emmmm /*searching someone who looks like me*/ Darth Sidius from the Staw Wars movies. Creepy face and so on. Well, I look a little bit better than he but still not good enough. And I am pretty stupid. I'm not interesting and boring....well cuz all of it I am not attractive to anyone from opposite sex.
And your problem .....maybe fear ? You need to go to some party or...anywhere.....some club.....don't know...maybe some painting class would be ok ? Then you will find someone. It works. The only example it wasn't working is me, but I already give you some reasons upper.

 

[wah]

This is a great thread, I'll chime in later.

One thing, though ... Shouldn't the choices have been "My sex - male", "My sex - female", "The opposite sex - male" and "The opposite sex- female"? Male and female doesn't really say much, a lot of voters may pick their own sex.

 

[RobertJW]

Women have it easier - way easier. Women can be divorced with 5 kids and STILL some guy will take them on. Divorced men have it much tougher, I can assure you.

Another example.....on a site I use occasionally there is a dating section.

The "Girls seeking guys" section has 117 ads, and a lot of them are bogus.

The "Guys seeking girls" section has 653 ads. Says it all really.