Would you date an Asian man?

[lonelyfairy]

sure, why not?

 

[Intranetusa]

:club:

 

[Callie]

Is that a yes or a no? hmmmm......

 

[PurpleDays]

I would lolololol yummmm.

 

[alonewanderer]

I usually bring up the fact I'm asian later, I don't like the small dick stigma associated with it so I'll disprove that stereotype right of the bat.

 

[IgnoredOne]

I usually bring up the fact I'm asian later, I don't like the small dick stigma associated with it so I'll disprove that stereotype right of the bat.

...

So, the women you meet see your genitals before your face?

 

[Intranetusa]

So, the women you meet see your genitals before your face?

lool, he could be a porn star.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

So, the women you meet see your genitals before your face?

lool, he could be a porn star.

Somebody has to make them..Bring it on babes. I got some accent secrets.
my dragon will encompass or lotus..

dont hate bitches..
haters cant hang.

she's the chip of the old block

 

[EveWasFramed]

uh...

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Hi...Eve godess of love.
Now u know Y I b obessed wit BOOBays...
my baby's mama have it the triple D.
She set the bar...man
Once u go triple D...u'll have go back
once u go exotic..you'll never go back either.lol

 

[Miss Demeanour]

Yes I had a Chinese boyfriend once, I also had a fling with an Iranian when I was a teenager and I find some Turkish men very handsome so yes I would.

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My gf N I went shoping today. I stand out like a fucken door knob enough as it was.
I live in a very heavy populated white folks area. I was by myself at first and people were stairing
at me enough as it was....Then she walked out of the store, held my hands and walked with me
as a couple...fucken all eyes were on us. How fucken un appropricate of us.

That used to happen with my Chinese boyfriend, we used to get some really funny looks off people but we used to love it, we'd kiss and cuddle even more just to annoy them.

 

[allanh]

I am starting to think the answer to the OP's original question is a resounding "No".

But maybe it's just me

 

[floffyschneeman]

I am starting to think the answer to the OP's original question is a resounding "No".

But maybe it's just me

do you like it that you are asian? cos if you yourself have some biases against your own race, then it might hinder you to see the good side of yourself, the side that others may like.

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actually I don't understand this thread. I don't know the aim of it. Why would we need to ask if people would date asian men or women? People have different physical types, may it be blond, brunette, blue-eyed, tall, latino, asian. That's known already.

 

[allanh]

nah, that is not what I mean.
I am saying that from my own very limited experience, it is extremely rare for non-Asian race wanting to date Asians.

But then again, don't trust what I am saying since I am not in a right frame of mind right now

 

[floffyschneeman]

nah, that is not what I mean.
I am saying that from my own very limited experience, it is extremely rare for non-Asian race wanting to date Asians.

But then again, don't trust what I am saying since I am not in a right frame of mind right now

I don't know. I don't think it matters that much, except if the person you are rooting for have this very strong set of requirements needed to be met. but I think it depends on how you connect with girls more. Like, I know most people or non-asian would never thought of dating asians. But so as other people, even asians. We dont always say, I am only going to date this particular race. It depends on the connection you make.

 

[Miss Demeanour]

I think it really depends on the individual person and not on the race as a whole. When I met my Chinese boyfriend (now ex) in a nightclub, I did find him attractive to look at but for me it was more that we hit it off straight away and could talk and talk for hours about anything. He was a very intelligent guy, university educated with letters after his name and had a professional job. My friends would ask me what I saw in him as they thought he was geeky looking and acted a bit wet, but I didn't think that at all, he was my soulmate and I fell in love with him, and to this day can honestly say he's the only person I've ever felt a 100% connection with if that makes sense. Now when I was younger I never thought I'd ever find anyone outside my race attractive, but then I met him and it didn't matter one bit.

 

[yesm]

Hmmmm let's see here... I'll have the cream of sumyungai!

some one had to do it

 

[IgnoredOne]

Anyway, yes, there are statistics showing that Asian men tend to be the least preferred. I tend to believe this is because of Asian portrayals as paradoxicaly, both weak and unmasculine as well as somehow chauvanistic and unpleasant. Basically, all of the bad traits that you can place on guys, tend to be attributed to Asian males.

This is why you're unlikely to ever see an Asian male lead that is in a relationship with a non-Asian, or as seen as desireable.

I don't see any reason why you, as a person, though, should resign yourself to being a statistic. Embrace challenges.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

People live in accordance to their beliefs.
Beliefs has nothing to do with religion.
It's a self fulfilling prophesy.

We all have heard "happiness is an inside job."
"Changes comes from within"
What are these saying telling you?

How dose it apply to dating women or anything else in your life?
Are you going to let someone else write the scripts for you how to live
or write your own scripts? How to live, what to believe in, what role
you ought to play, whom to fresia and the limited person you're allowed
to fresia? Fucken robot!!!!!!

As grandmama say
"just becuase everyone else is jumping off the fucken bridge...are you ganna do the same?"
Playing the Fucken Penguin on a march. Buy into bullshit/ideas/beleifs the so call fucken experts tell you. It only becomes reality after you run with it or believe in it.

Of course there's alway gonna be guys like me.
The fucken smart ass. The rebell. The free thinker.
fresia THE HATERS..THEY ALL CAN KISS MY FUCKEN ASS.
I DONT GIVE A fresia WHAT THEY SAY OR THINK ABOUT ME.
ITS MY LIFE AND I"LL DO WHATEVER THE fresia I WANT...
IT ALSO MEANS I"VE messed AND IS ******* THE LIVING honeysuckle OUT OF PLENTY OF WHITE CHICKS
AND ONLY HAWT WHITE CHICKS....BELIEVE THIS.
NOT ONLY THAt I DATE HAWT CHICKS. I OBSESS WITh FUCKEN BIG TITAYS.
HAWT WHITE CHICKS WITh BIG ASS TITAYS

Even Bruce Lee had a white chick.
His famouse quote or something he bollowed from...
"you first must empty out your cup before you can refill it"
He's talking about your beliefs system or ideas.

The evident is right in front of you. You're deep in your beliefs and ideas.
You refused to see, remain delusional. In other words live in denial.
You see only what you want to see becuase of your narrow mindedness
You had gotten comfortable in bullshit and being a robot.
You're afriad to think outside of the box so you remain in the box.

 

[littlerivers]

I don't see why not. My only- incredibly shallow- problem would probably be if he was significantly shorter or slimmer than me, which is something I dislike as far as any potential male mates are concerned. Because I don't want to look like a giant standing next to my man. T_T

As for dating an asian woman, no objections there either.