Nightwatcher
Well-known member
I must disagree with you.
First of you could divide loneliness into two kinds. Nourishing and debilitating loneliness, Nourishing loneliness is the ability as you describe to being able to thrive in your own company and enjoy your solitude from the world. But in order to experience this you need to have had atleast had some pleasant memory of a human relation. Otherwise its likely you will slip ower into debilitating loneliness. Debilitating loneliness comes with being angry and bitter and jeuolous or saddend. This is what most people think that loneliness leads to. Debilitating loneliness also creates this victim mentallity and works as an excuse for a selfcenterd lifestyle leading to further loneliness.
I must agree on you that you got it right that you at a period of your life can live in solitude. This as you alredy is at peace mentally with the concept of living alone and have experience with relations. This is somewhat of what is going on with hermits at least thats what i think. So in that sence you're right.
But (again) as i mentioned above you must in some part of your life had some contact with people in order to "live". This as you otherwise would miss the beuty. This because you would be busy with being saddend bitter or jeulous and miss the beuty of life.
First of you could divide loneliness into two kinds. Nourishing and debilitating loneliness, Nourishing loneliness is the ability as you describe to being able to thrive in your own company and enjoy your solitude from the world. But in order to experience this you need to have had atleast had some pleasant memory of a human relation. Otherwise its likely you will slip ower into debilitating loneliness. Debilitating loneliness comes with being angry and bitter and jeuolous or saddend. This is what most people think that loneliness leads to. Debilitating loneliness also creates this victim mentallity and works as an excuse for a selfcenterd lifestyle leading to further loneliness.
I must agree on you that you got it right that you at a period of your life can live in solitude. This as you alredy is at peace mentally with the concept of living alone and have experience with relations. This is somewhat of what is going on with hermits at least thats what i think. So in that sence you're right.
But (again) as i mentioned above you must in some part of your life had some contact with people in order to "live". This as you otherwise would miss the beuty. This because you would be busy with being saddend bitter or jeulous and miss the beuty of life.