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I've never had solid social groups only a handful of friends...i've made some friends online now and talk to them regularly which is a great change to say half a year ago...but even as great as they are, you can't replace the physical person right there. I went out on a 'date' with someone a few...

It's difficult to admit to people...even to friends its become hard. No one wants to hear it. They either can't really help or don't know what to say or will brand you as something or rather. I just dont admit it to anyone anymore...I remember last year I was having a really bad bad episode and...

Thinking about...going outside and tackling a new adventure, the best thing having a day off mid week this week and I really need coffee.

I have made some improvements in my life, I've got a better job, moved somewhere completely different made a few more friends since the start of this year. It's good to have people to talk to even if its just messaging on the phone and the odd call here and there... The problem is..I think my...

Don't get bitter Peaches...I still remember that you help and give advice as much as you can on here. Just don't get bitter believe me I feel like when I try and think about my problems it does devolve into bitterness because I haven't managed to change whatever is wrong with me or whatever...

Videogames are great. I almost get so into the games I feel like im in them. Cycling has been a massive help. Pushing myself to the limit and only focusing on how far and hard I can ride makes me think about how to improve and get better...shame when I stop my mind wanders back to loneliness at...

I guess in that situation I felt like a failure as I have been totally unsuccessful in meeting someone for the past few years. I've done some stupid things to stop feeling alone but around that table, I just felt removed from the conversation. What can someone who hasn't been with anyone in a...

So I had one around a large dinner table with some strangers. It went like this; one girl shows another a picture of her boyfriend then another starts 'show me!' Soon the whole table is pulling out pictures on their phones of their respective partners. It inevitably leads to the explanation that...

I don't think it's just London. I'm away in Spain at the moment and feel incredibly lonely after saying goodbye to many people I was volunteering with now I'm alone again. It can happen in. By city and it has happened in every city I've visited in Europe. If you're alone you either create the...

Being alone is some sort of chain that drags you right back down no matter what you do. Get a new job, speak to people, make plans but nope! Loneliness rears its head at you and reminds you what you feel and who you are. I wish I wasn't lonely and had friends, a partner but still had my solitude...

It's bloody difficult without the right picture. I realised recently that my profile pictures are of me travelling and don't have a close up picture of my face. Even then though what's the point? I'm not a godly looking human specimen which is what some of the women on these sites want. I...

Scary thing to accept it but it does work it peaks and troughs. Accepting it is a weird thing. I sometimes have lucid moments when I'm out and about where I feel like I've got it, how to stop feeling awful and alone and be happier it's a fleeting moment and then I lose it. Facing loneliness head...

Something I've been thinking about of late...I just can't seem to get a new job and I have been trying and trying and trying over the last year throwing applications out left right and centre, revamping my CV, writing better cover letters...but to no avail at all. I'm still stuck in my shitty...

Can't use a username that's too 'you' nothing too much into your interests, has to be about having a name that exudes confidence. I have said fresia it to dating sites. Wasted so much time on them trawling through sending out messages having some responses but nothing after two sentences and...

I get that too. All the meet ups whether they were for art, walkabouts, general meets everyone there had friends or partners outside the meetups. They were there for the event, not to make lasting friendships it seems. I can never seem to understand that sometimes putting so many people together...

You feel even though you've done all you can to prevent feeling it...you're still lonely as ever. The worst is dreams where you're lonely its like you cant escape even when you can do anything in your dreams. Happened to me.. had an cycling accident and broke a bone. Sat in A&E for 3 hours...

I think about my last relationship years ago. I sometimes wonder how she's doing, never enough to spur me into reconnecting. As that last door was closed years ago, there is no point in opening it. Caused me a lot of pain and it took a long time to come to terms. Feel like if i ever did...

I've been having some bad thoughts about loneliness. Its still so hard to get out of...why things dont work out like they are supposed to and have for most people around me, makes me think I'm just not supposed to be here. Its insanely difficult to meet a new partner, its just as hard to get a...

Can't sleep...broken bone and other injuries from a car nearly running my bicycle down a couple weeks back...completely alone..it's so much harder to deal with things if you're not at 100%... nobody around to care less, nobody that cares in a city of millions of people.. probably gonna have to...

How I'm basically out of action as ive broken my collarbone in a cycling accident...feel like all my carefully laid plans have been halted. Not sure when I'll be back in work, cant volunteer, may not be able to go travelling later this year, not sure when i can get back on my bike...plus i live...