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I just feel that finding a girlfriend will help to solve my lonely and sad feelings. Why? My life is pretty much on track - I am well-educated, I have a good career ahead of me, I don't look like a social outcast (feel like one though :( ). If I find the right girl, I will then have someone to...

I have a friend from school days (years ago) that is kinda a dork, but has a wonderful social life. Should I go out with him more so that I can start to build up my own social life? He is a nice enough guy, but just some of the things he says and does are dorky.

Last week I was feeling great. After work last Friday, I took the chance to meet some new people from my uni course, and it was great fun. I proved to myself that I could be sociable in environment full of strangers. This week I feel so pathetic and useless. It's now Friday night and I am...

Today as I was leaving work, I left just after a female colleague of mine whom is roughly the same age as myself. Anyway, as I approached the foyer area where the lifts were, I looked at her but couldn't say anything. As we got into the lift, I didn't say anything and when we both left, I didn't...

I just feel down in the dumps, yet again. I am not going to lie; it's partially because I have no friends, and partially because I want a girlfriend. It sounds kinda dumb but I just want someone to cuddle up to; the thought of which makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. As much as I'd love...

I don't really know what I want out of life. I am sick and tired of being lonely and I REALLY REALLY want to break out of this cycle. On the surface I appear to be doing well - I have completed two degrees; landed a graduate position right out of uni which I am enjoying. Anyone that doesn't...

How??? I am so sad and depressed and lonely. I just want to meet people around my age, in my area but I just don't see that happening. :( I just feel that my life is useless and I am sick of living like this.

I desperately want to meet people of my own age but I don't know where or how to. I am not a social outcast; just a lonely shy person. I want to meet people that like going out; I want to make new friends. :(

How??? I am clueless.... :\ None of my 'friends' like doing these kinds of things, but I do. :(

Anyone?

Just curious; can you be a 'loner' and still have a healthy romantic relationship with someone. I am especially interested to hear from those who have partners which tend to have much better social lives then themselves.

How can I meet people who want to go to the pub or to a club on weekends? :(

I don't think people like me in my office. I am the new guy and we all went to lunch today and basically no-one spoke to me. Only this other asian guy (from China) spoke to me. There is only one other person who is around the same age as myself, but she hasn't spoken to me yet, and I am too...

How??? It just seems almost nigh on impossible! I am not a dork, nor 'uncool'. I am very much like your typical mid-20's kinda guy, but shy and a 'loner'.

Hello there, I am a shy guy and like a lot of you, lead a somewhat "lonely" life. I am dying to meet new people, get invited to parties, potentially make new friends, but I just don't know how. I have maybe a couple of good friends, but it really feels like I have no friends at times. Sure, I...