heretostay
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Im married. but i feel like i might as well be single. its so depressing. right now he's off with his friends playing video games and going to the movies. while i just sit here. ya, i could have gone with him. but he's also hanging out with his brother and his brother is a total jerk to me. So i just sit here. I guess i thought when one was married it meant not being alone anymore. not the case.
im trying not to feel sorry for myself. afterall, its not healthy for him to sit here with me all the time either. he needs to do things away from me. maybe im just jealous. i dont have any friends. i gave them up when i moved states with him. and most of my friends were guys anyway.
i dont make friends easily. the friends i had before getting married were guys. i thought it was fun being single. i could date a lot. there was excitement in my life. but now, i just have my husband who doenst really like doing the things i like to do. and i dont even have the option of going out with another guy anymore. this is just not how i thought it would be.
when he comes home im not going to want to talk to him. i'll be angry at him when really its not his fault that im lonely. but thats logistics speaking. i really do feel like its his fault that im lonely. i wasnt like this before i met him.
any advice would be appreciated. i jsut dont know how to handle feeling so lonely while he goes off with friends all the time. i thought this would be a good place to get advice b/c i know other people would tell me to just go get my own life. but even when i am around other people i still feel lonely. maybe im just defective?
im trying not to feel sorry for myself. afterall, its not healthy for him to sit here with me all the time either. he needs to do things away from me. maybe im just jealous. i dont have any friends. i gave them up when i moved states with him. and most of my friends were guys anyway.
i dont make friends easily. the friends i had before getting married were guys. i thought it was fun being single. i could date a lot. there was excitement in my life. but now, i just have my husband who doenst really like doing the things i like to do. and i dont even have the option of going out with another guy anymore. this is just not how i thought it would be.
when he comes home im not going to want to talk to him. i'll be angry at him when really its not his fault that im lonely. but thats logistics speaking. i really do feel like its his fault that im lonely. i wasnt like this before i met him.
any advice would be appreciated. i jsut dont know how to handle feeling so lonely while he goes off with friends all the time. i thought this would be a good place to get advice b/c i know other people would tell me to just go get my own life. but even when i am around other people i still feel lonely. maybe im just defective?