darkwall
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So, you're at one of those silent disco events and it's all going wonderfully. Suddenly, your iPod falls to the ground, and as you reach to pick it up, you hear nothing but the sound of feet, like a broken march, and a few people singing along to their favourite songs. You feel very isolated from it all - the eerie sounds of people singing different songs badly and feet tramping on the ground - and you want to replace your earphones but it wouldn't feel right. For now that the reality of the situation - because reality is after all what is happening among other people - filters through, you don't want to plug yourself back into your dream-music.
The experience of recollecting the fact of your own death is for me like this experience. Your headphones fall out of your ears, and you are confronted with silence, the universe, even the fact of your own body. We all aspire to be as unaware as the singing people, at least until the headphones come out; but mine, these days, hang permanently around my neck: my thoughts are destroying me. But wait! There in the crowd there is a girl, moving without headphones, dancing to the sounds of other people dancing to whatever it is that’s inside their heads.
She has accepted her death on a meaningful level: she doesn’t need music, and she has become existentially free. I would join her, if I could. But the knowledge of my death paralyses me: it is cruel that animals, whose deaths were like blood-cells being replaced after a cycle, should have reached this level of sentiency. You and I will die: very, very soon. The chemistry of our bodies will make it appear to us that we have lived a long time, but we will have lived no time at all.
We could cling to each other in the knowledge that everything else is meaningless. We could try to make something brilliant from our lives. But we are not death-dancers; we lack the strength, and are neutered by the fact that both awareness and obliviousness towards death produce different states of apathy. In an hour, being human, we will have forgotten what it was like without the headphones, and this produces a sort of rage within us, like that of a child knowing that soon one will forgive one's parents for punishing us.
This anger sustains me longer than probably most people, as you can tell from my entries, but it is not enough. I don't want to live as I live, sub-existing, hypnotising myself through routine into forgetting the fact that I am not who I want to be, going from involved to detached so fast that I can't take either seriously. I want to be like the death-dancer, all knowing and supreme, moving without dreams.
The experience of recollecting the fact of your own death is for me like this experience. Your headphones fall out of your ears, and you are confronted with silence, the universe, even the fact of your own body. We all aspire to be as unaware as the singing people, at least until the headphones come out; but mine, these days, hang permanently around my neck: my thoughts are destroying me. But wait! There in the crowd there is a girl, moving without headphones, dancing to the sounds of other people dancing to whatever it is that’s inside their heads.
She has accepted her death on a meaningful level: she doesn’t need music, and she has become existentially free. I would join her, if I could. But the knowledge of my death paralyses me: it is cruel that animals, whose deaths were like blood-cells being replaced after a cycle, should have reached this level of sentiency. You and I will die: very, very soon. The chemistry of our bodies will make it appear to us that we have lived a long time, but we will have lived no time at all.
We could cling to each other in the knowledge that everything else is meaningless. We could try to make something brilliant from our lives. But we are not death-dancers; we lack the strength, and are neutered by the fact that both awareness and obliviousness towards death produce different states of apathy. In an hour, being human, we will have forgotten what it was like without the headphones, and this produces a sort of rage within us, like that of a child knowing that soon one will forgive one's parents for punishing us.
This anger sustains me longer than probably most people, as you can tell from my entries, but it is not enough. I don't want to live as I live, sub-existing, hypnotising myself through routine into forgetting the fact that I am not who I want to be, going from involved to detached so fast that I can't take either seriously. I want to be like the death-dancer, all knowing and supreme, moving without dreams.