SocratesX said:
Attend parties that are small and have alcohol. About 20 people. Make sure the girl to guy ratio is like 5 dudes and 15 girls. Drink enough to say what you want but not so much that you act ******* retarded.
I usually find a cute but shy, nervous and geeky looking girl and I strike up a conversation with her. The geeky girls are turned on by my muscles and shard wardrobe, and all I have to do is act like a sensitive gentleman. (this does NOT work if you are ugly, nerdy, or creepy looking, just FYI).
Please stop. Your posts make me want to vomit out my eyeballs.
What you claim to KNOW about women and what we want would fit in the bottom of a thimble.
What you DON'T know is enormous.
To the OP: you're not ugly at all. I can see maybe some uncertainty or a lack of confidence, but that does not make you ugly. It's true that confidence in a person (man or woman) is an attractive quality, but you're young, and the girls around you are still young - too young probably to see the difference between real confidence and arrogance.
I'd say, try
faking the confidence at first. You'd be surprised how a little bit of attention can build confidence, ad then it's like the snowball effect.