solitudeinside
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What is the best way to ask a quiet girl out for a date?
I'm fairly quiet myself, and I'm very shy around girls, so it's hard to speak with them, let alone ask them out for a date. Generally, I'm more attracted to the quiet, gentle, good-natured girls. There is a girl who works at a place that I frequent. She is absolutely stunning. She is very beautiful and just radiates a positive, calm, pleasant feeling... But I barely know her, and we have only spoken once or twice. Also, it's entirely possible she has not noticed me at all.
Would I scare her off if I just boldly walked up and started a conversation...and then, if the reaction was neutral/positive, asked her out for a date?
How would you ladies feel if a tall, quiet, slightly awkward, handsome guy asked you on a date--especially a complete stranger? (Not to be conceited, but I've heard that I'm an attractive guy...so that may or may not be an issue for her--just depends what her taste is. I'm skeptical about my looks, because I've always considered myself "average", but I have noticed more and more girls giving me some looks...)
If there are any women--especially ones fitting the personality traits mentioned above--who could answer this question, or give their thoughts, I would be very grateful.
I'm fairly quiet myself, and I'm very shy around girls, so it's hard to speak with them, let alone ask them out for a date. Generally, I'm more attracted to the quiet, gentle, good-natured girls. There is a girl who works at a place that I frequent. She is absolutely stunning. She is very beautiful and just radiates a positive, calm, pleasant feeling... But I barely know her, and we have only spoken once or twice. Also, it's entirely possible she has not noticed me at all.
Would I scare her off if I just boldly walked up and started a conversation...and then, if the reaction was neutral/positive, asked her out for a date?
How would you ladies feel if a tall, quiet, slightly awkward, handsome guy asked you on a date--especially a complete stranger? (Not to be conceited, but I've heard that I'm an attractive guy...so that may or may not be an issue for her--just depends what her taste is. I'm skeptical about my looks, because I've always considered myself "average", but I have noticed more and more girls giving me some looks...)
If there are any women--especially ones fitting the personality traits mentioned above--who could answer this question, or give their thoughts, I would be very grateful.