Ideal date, yet I feel horrible!

[VanillaCreme]

It could be considered rude, yeah, but some people think it's best not to say anything at all for some reason. We don't know her reasoning.

 

[TheSkaFish]

I don't know how much this applies, but sometimes I take a while to reply back to people that I am interested in continuing to talk to. I worry that I come off as rude, but because I've made so many mistakes in talking to people over the years, it's made me overly cautious. I feel like it's better for me to say nothing than to say something stupid, or to say something and then realize I could have said something better if I waited until I was in a more prepared and talkative mood.

 

[bender22]

Might have helped if you had seeded future plans at a high point during the date rather than waiting right until the end. Also she may have been disappointed that you had such a good date but you didn't make a move on her physically. Wouldn't have hurt to at least have gone for a kiss. Something to keep in mind for next time.

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

Wouldn't have hurt to at least have gone for a kiss. Something to keep in mind for next time.

Ha, this is probably true. I've never had a "proper" romantic kiss, so I literally have no idea when to go for it. Plus the hugs I did go for were oddly rushed. Fail :rolleyes2:

I'm going to hold out (there's no one else in my life right now anyway!) but I imagine it's probably game over. It's all good, though

 

[Triple Bogey]

All threads like this end the same. The guy doesn't get anywhere.

 

[LonesomeLoner]

If you don't get anywhere with her, take the pride from having a good date and move on to the next person.