AnonymousMe
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It’s not going to be complicated and I’m not sure if it’s going to be helpful, because online interactions are obviously not the same as offline ones, but I do hope some members get some aid or tips in learning how to interact with someone they’re interested in or with the opposite sex.
Anyways, the rules are simple; anyone can also suggest new rules to make this thing more balanced. The way it works is like this: a member that doesn’t or hasn’t had much luck in getting into a romantic relationship or talking to the opposite sex will set a scenario; it can be on any modest setting doing any modest activity, but then they must describe themselves approaching someone (I suggest this for guys) or getting approached by someone (I suggest this for gals). Since physical attractiveness is an undeniable factor, I suggest you all post a selfie of yourselves, to see what everyone’s getting into. Members must then reply and have a conversation for as long as possible, after the whole chat is done, the ones who set up the scenario must be rated for how they did as a whole by everyone, then suggest tips on what they did right, what they did wrong, what else they could’ve done and what else they shouldn’t have done. By the way, it’s forbidden to say stuff like “I’m already in a relationship” or “I’m married,” those comments obviously end the conversation, they happen in real life, yes, but we all know how to react to those, you’re allowed to reject though.
One more rule, since this is a forum, it’s obvious that you all have all the time in the world to think of an answer, but since that’s not how conversations flow, you must type in the first thing that comes to mind, or the second at most. Also, I know the whole thread could become a mess, so you’re all free to continue the “conversations” on PMS if you want, the only disadvantage is that the chat is not going to be seen, so it could leave out other members that are looking for hints without involving themselves in the thread.
I hope I made it clear enough, but I’ll leave an example down below, I’m playing too, so you can reply to my example if anyone wants.
Forget that you’re all friends or acquaintances, for now, you’re all strangers to each other.
Example:
"I have always been an introvert, but I go out to a plaza and make an attempt in socializing. There are so many places where I could go, restaurants, clothing shops, general stores, toy shops, etc. I decide to try out a clothing shop, but since getting clothes isn’t my main objective, I pretend that I can’t find a pair of jeans that fit my measurements, so I search for a worker, preferably a girl, that could “help” me find fitting jeans. I eventually find one and ask her with a timid voice, “Excuse me?”"
http://www.mediafire.com/view/4vdr7l2r175w3hw/IMG_0005.JPG#
(Now anyone can answer)
(Sorry for the sh*t quality selfie; I don’t have a cell phone. Pretend my hair's combed too.)
Anyways, the rules are simple; anyone can also suggest new rules to make this thing more balanced. The way it works is like this: a member that doesn’t or hasn’t had much luck in getting into a romantic relationship or talking to the opposite sex will set a scenario; it can be on any modest setting doing any modest activity, but then they must describe themselves approaching someone (I suggest this for guys) or getting approached by someone (I suggest this for gals). Since physical attractiveness is an undeniable factor, I suggest you all post a selfie of yourselves, to see what everyone’s getting into. Members must then reply and have a conversation for as long as possible, after the whole chat is done, the ones who set up the scenario must be rated for how they did as a whole by everyone, then suggest tips on what they did right, what they did wrong, what else they could’ve done and what else they shouldn’t have done. By the way, it’s forbidden to say stuff like “I’m already in a relationship” or “I’m married,” those comments obviously end the conversation, they happen in real life, yes, but we all know how to react to those, you’re allowed to reject though.
One more rule, since this is a forum, it’s obvious that you all have all the time in the world to think of an answer, but since that’s not how conversations flow, you must type in the first thing that comes to mind, or the second at most. Also, I know the whole thread could become a mess, so you’re all free to continue the “conversations” on PMS if you want, the only disadvantage is that the chat is not going to be seen, so it could leave out other members that are looking for hints without involving themselves in the thread.
I hope I made it clear enough, but I’ll leave an example down below, I’m playing too, so you can reply to my example if anyone wants.
Forget that you’re all friends or acquaintances, for now, you’re all strangers to each other.
Example:
"I have always been an introvert, but I go out to a plaza and make an attempt in socializing. There are so many places where I could go, restaurants, clothing shops, general stores, toy shops, etc. I decide to try out a clothing shop, but since getting clothes isn’t my main objective, I pretend that I can’t find a pair of jeans that fit my measurements, so I search for a worker, preferably a girl, that could “help” me find fitting jeans. I eventually find one and ask her with a timid voice, “Excuse me?”"
http://www.mediafire.com/view/4vdr7l2r175w3hw/IMG_0005.JPG#
(Now anyone can answer)
(Sorry for the sh*t quality selfie; I don’t have a cell phone. Pretend my hair's combed too.)