LadyDaria
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I actually don't think that I am either. But I suppose what I have is a tremendous need for people to listen to me and talk about things that are happening to me. Or what I find, is that I can't get people to really listen to me... or, if I do, they eventually get sick of listening to me.
This confuses me... because it seems 99% of my day seems to be listening to others about things I do not care about and frankly I can't really understand anyway. Typical conversations include
co worker:
Did I tell you what (co worker I don't know) said?
No,
Well, (co worker I don't know ) said that (co worker that I also don't know) said ,, blah blah blah... ISN"T that FUNNY? And then I slap on the smile and laugh at I don't know what.. and then I start talking and "well I really have to get back to work."
I always feel like I get need like 50% more listening to than I get and that makes me lonely even with a zillion people around.
Also, something that irks me... when I am not out in the world... I get much better at not looking to people to tell my tales. After all there is no need to. But people are always seemingly asking me about myself and so out in the real world I tend to have something happen to me and think, oh got to save that for someone when I need taking points... then I am all in the *got to tell that to someone... mode*... only to have no one to really tell it too... it is the pain of having to have to push it back in that I think makes me feel lonely.
Anyone listening?
This confuses me... because it seems 99% of my day seems to be listening to others about things I do not care about and frankly I can't really understand anyway. Typical conversations include
co worker:
Did I tell you what (co worker I don't know) said?
No,
Well, (co worker I don't know ) said that (co worker that I also don't know) said ,, blah blah blah... ISN"T that FUNNY? And then I slap on the smile and laugh at I don't know what.. and then I start talking and "well I really have to get back to work."
I always feel like I get need like 50% more listening to than I get and that makes me lonely even with a zillion people around.
Also, something that irks me... when I am not out in the world... I get much better at not looking to people to tell my tales. After all there is no need to. But people are always seemingly asking me about myself and so out in the real world I tend to have something happen to me and think, oh got to save that for someone when I need taking points... then I am all in the *got to tell that to someone... mode*... only to have no one to really tell it too... it is the pain of having to have to push it back in that I think makes me feel lonely.
Anyone listening?