ahaikulife
Well-known member
So, my most recent break-up, has really been hurting.. but, I think that I figured out one of the main reasons. It may be because I am so hurt at how she (and her family, actually) views me. I mean, they have said and implied things that are just plain wrong, in terms of my intentions as an individual, and they have used things that I have said out of context to hurt me.. so, why am I upset about it? I am over her, but I am not over being hurt and confused about why she thinks of me the way she does.... what is wrong with me? why do I feel such a strong need to be understood by her, now that she is not in my life? why do I care what she (they) think of me? especially since they are now out of my life?
-Mike
-Mike