Xpendable said:Is a man with no sexual experience a turn off?
Xpendable said:Is a man with no sexual experience a turn off?
Shiloh253 said:I did have a question that's been on my mind for a while. For the girls: How would you feel about hanging out with a guy who doesn't have a car/can't drive? I've got vision issues that stop me from doing so and that's always been a huge fear of mine. Finally working up the courage to ask someone out, then having to tell them I can't get around on my own if it's not on foot/bike/via bus. Maybe it's just my apprehension, but to me that would seem like a major turn-off.
Solivagant said:
ladyforsaken said:Nope.
Xpendable said:Please elaborate.
Xpendable said:Solivagant said:
ladyforsaken said:Nope.
Please elaborate.
Xpendable said:Is a man with no sexual experience a turn off?
Xpendable said:Why it doesn't matter?
ladyforsaken said:1. It's nice to know that the guy hasn't been sleeping around if he happened to be experienced in that sort of way.
2. For some women who are just as inexperienced, it would not be so intimidating to meet a guy who is of the same level of experience so that perhaps they can "learn" and experience new stuff together.
3. Some women might feel it's better to have a "new" guy rather than a "used" guy. As harsh as that might sound, I'm thinking some women might think like this.
I can't think of any other reasons but personally, it wouldn't bother me whether he's experienced or not. If he's good and doesn't raise red flags, I'd accept him however he is. People can change and their past doesn't necessarily dictate their future behaviour either.
TheRealCallie said:Xpendable said:Solivagant said:
ladyforsaken said:Nope.
Please elaborate.
What's to elaborate? It either is or isn't. Some (I'd actually bet MOST) people don't care if you have sexual experience
I don't care either way if a guy does or does not have experience.
Triple Bogey said:I have heard many women say that if a guy has never had a girlfriend then they must be something wrong with him. They wouldn't want to get to know him. In my small part of the world, that is the attitude of some women.
Just saying.
ladyforsaken said:Triple Bogey said:I have heard many women say that if a guy has never had a girlfriend then they must be something wrong with him. They wouldn't want to get to know him. In my small part of the world, that is the attitude of some women.
Just saying.
I really can't make sense of such an opinion. A little shallow and unreasonable of such women, me thinks.
Triple Bogey said:ladyforsaken said:Triple Bogey said:I have heard many women say that if a guy has never had a girlfriend then they must be something wrong with him. They wouldn't want to get to know him. In my small part of the world, that is the attitude of some women.
Just saying.
I really can't make sense of such an opinion. A little shallow and unreasonable of such women, me thinks.
Well it is, I agree but I have heard it over and over again.
My mother always mentions it. And her friends. Stuff like 'he's never been married, there's something wrong with him'
ladyforsaken said:Shiloh253 said:I did have a question that's been on my mind for a while. For the girls: How would you feel about hanging out with a guy who doesn't have a car/can't drive? I've got vision issues that stop me from doing so and that's always been a huge fear of mine. Finally working up the courage to ask someone out, then having to tell them I can't get around on my own if it's not on foot/bike/via bus. Maybe it's just my apprehension, but to me that would seem like a major turn-off.
I personally could care less about if a guy drives or not. We'll just make do.
Shiloh253 said:I live in the definition of "middle of nowhere" What surprised me is that I asked this question on another forum, but left out the part about my vision issues and just said that I didn't have a car or license. Almost every response was "If a man can't drive me around he must be weak/insecure" or "then he must have done something bad to get it taken away or doesn't care about the person he's dating".
And then she says something along the lines of "if a man can't buy me what I want..." :club:Shiloh253 said:TheRealCallie said:Shiloh253 said:I did have a question that's been on my mind for a while. For the girls: How would you feel about hanging out with a guy who doesn't have a car/can't drive? I've got vision issues that stop me from doing so and that's always been a huge fear of mine. Finally working up the courage to ask someone out, then having to tell them I can't get around on my own if it's not on foot/bike/via bus. Maybe it's just my apprehension, but to me that would seem like a major turn-off.
If you live out in the middle of nowhere or far away it might be a slight inconvenience at times, but I don't see why it would stop anyone from hanging out with you or having a relationship with you.
Not everyone can drive, not everyone wants to drive. It wouldn't bother me at all.
I live in the definition of "middle of nowhere" What surprised me is that I asked this question on another forum, but left out the part about my vision issues and just said that I didn't have a car or license. Almost every response was "If a man can't drive me around he must be weak/insecure" or "then he must have done something bad to get it taken away or doesn't care about the person he's dating".
TheRealCallie said:The person SAYING you don't care is the one that doesn't care.
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