So the last few days have been a bit of a whirlwind of anger towards me for certain things. Different things, parents, lack of time, too much to do, haters will hate really.
And just now, I had a revelation. After a friend decided she didn't like that I was offering her a space to sell stuff; decided to yell at me, I realised.
I realised then, yes realised, that whatever happens, or what is said of me, life will continue. Yup the sun will rise tomorrow and you better just get on with life.
More things started coming to me at that point. I realised how stressed and uptight I was about appearances. About getting people to like me. I want with the flow. And the last few months have been about this 'flow' of life and how much easier it is to me.
I also realised people are honeysuckle lol and I had too high expectations for friends which went down like a lead ballon when said friends were honeysuckle. Everyone is going to have things that are wrong with them that reflect in friendships. People can be douches though, so I also realised there was tons of friends that were just using me. They will not be talked to again. =D
There is something to look forward to though.
I am me; nothing can be changed about that. But I have changed as me. I've gone from a super awkward teenage gamer, to an awkward, meek adult, finally arriving where I am now, posting on a random board to strangers but far stronger all because I took all these hits over the years.
You may not think it's amazing, but I do. I've grown so much, and I'm sure you all have too.
Thoughts?
And just now, I had a revelation. After a friend decided she didn't like that I was offering her a space to sell stuff; decided to yell at me, I realised.
I realised then, yes realised, that whatever happens, or what is said of me, life will continue. Yup the sun will rise tomorrow and you better just get on with life.
More things started coming to me at that point. I realised how stressed and uptight I was about appearances. About getting people to like me. I want with the flow. And the last few months have been about this 'flow' of life and how much easier it is to me.
I also realised people are honeysuckle lol and I had too high expectations for friends which went down like a lead ballon when said friends were honeysuckle. Everyone is going to have things that are wrong with them that reflect in friendships. People can be douches though, so I also realised there was tons of friends that were just using me. They will not be talked to again. =D
There is something to look forward to though.
I am me; nothing can be changed about that. But I have changed as me. I've gone from a super awkward teenage gamer, to an awkward, meek adult, finally arriving where I am now, posting on a random board to strangers but far stronger all because I took all these hits over the years.
You may not think it's amazing, but I do. I've grown so much, and I'm sure you all have too.
Thoughts?