Unwanted94
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Sometimes, I think the reason why our relationships with people never go anywhere is because of high expectations,and of course, small talk. Does anyone here actually like small talk? I don't....
Lately, I've been trying to be outgoing. You know. Less isolated,and I have to say, it feels good but strange at the same time... maybe it's because I'm just not used to it, but it's going well I think.
Anyway, whenever I talk to a stranger, I usually want the conversation to evolve into something deeper and more intimate...maybe even personal sometimes. I can converse well with others, but sometimes it just seems like the other person isn't really interested.How come 99% of my conversations never even go anywhere? Sometimes I wish I could just talk to someone for hours and then actually develop a friendship, but I'll talk to people at the skate park (for example) but it never leads anywhere. Am I doing something wrong? Maybe I'm being too distant? Maybe they think I'm boring? Should I go elsewhere? Maybe somewhere that isn't so "active" a bit more chill, like a music store, a book store or a club??
Lately, I've been trying to be outgoing. You know. Less isolated,and I have to say, it feels good but strange at the same time... maybe it's because I'm just not used to it, but it's going well I think.
Anyway, whenever I talk to a stranger, I usually want the conversation to evolve into something deeper and more intimate...maybe even personal sometimes. I can converse well with others, but sometimes it just seems like the other person isn't really interested.How come 99% of my conversations never even go anywhere? Sometimes I wish I could just talk to someone for hours and then actually develop a friendship, but I'll talk to people at the skate park (for example) but it never leads anywhere. Am I doing something wrong? Maybe I'm being too distant? Maybe they think I'm boring? Should I go elsewhere? Maybe somewhere that isn't so "active" a bit more chill, like a music store, a book store or a club??