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Why bother indeed. Getting your hopes up will more often lead to despair than happiness. Sifting thru life is the best way to go.
 
We've little choice but to bother I'm afraid. Take a break from things if you can. Sounds like you need one. I do.
 
Perhaps you would want to share more. Indeed having hope will often lead one to the state of disappointment when this hope is in the end not realised. But it is often this hope that keeps one going in the first place and looking forward to the day.
 
What's the alternative? Not experience life? Not take what good we can get? Not spread what good we can?

I think we often get hung up on being something specific - follow this life path, handle your affairs like this, do this but don't do that - and become dissatisfied with making what we can from what we have.
 
when you want something so bad, not just love, but anything, and it always seems to never work out, hope is lost. some people have bad luck. even when i try to be hopeful, i'm batting zero since i can remember. so why even bother, maybe i'll bother again one day, but overall, no.
 
Becuase She fought her way into this life. Becuase she was abandent at birth.
Becuase she was bullied and made fun of....
She feels hurt and angery at the world and life sometimes.
And at me sometimes. She struggles through the good times and bad times.
But she tries and again and again and again. Because she loves me.
Becuase she holds me accountiable.Becuase she needs me. Becuase she's beautiful
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Lonesome Crow said:
Becuase She fought her way into this life. Becuase she was abandent at birth.
Becuase she was bullied and made fun of....
She feels hurt and angery at the world and life sometimes.
And at me sometimes. She struggles through the good times and bad times.
But she tries and again and again and again. Because she loves me.
Becuase she holds me accountiable.Becuase she needs me. Becuase she's beautiful
391602_475274075838008_509061533_n.jpg

550750_475110215854394_1432381949_n.jpg

why is that relevant to this thread ?
 
Wilt Chamberlain is an NBA legend. He was known throughout the world for having sex with an insane amount of women. I mean tons man!

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putter65 said:
Lonesome Crow said:
Becuase She fought her way into this life. Becuase she was abandent at birth.
Becuase she was bullied and made fun of....
She feels hurt and angery at the world and life sometimes.
And at me sometimes. She struggles through the good times and bad times.
But she tries and again and again and again. Because she loves me.
Becuase she holds me accountiable.Becuase she needs me. Becuase she's beautiful
391602_475274075838008_509061533_n.jpg

550750_475110215854394_1432381949_n.jpg

why is that relevant to this thread ?

Becuase she's my daughter....
Dose it bother you???
If so....Thats your fucken problem.
 
Lonesome Crow said:
putter65 said:
Lonesome Crow said:
Becuase She fought her way into this life. Becuase she was abandent at birth.
Becuase she was bullied and made fun of....
She feels hurt and angery at the world and life sometimes.
And at me sometimes. She struggles through the good times and bad times.
But she tries and again and again and again. Because she loves me.
Becuase she holds me accountiable.Becuase she needs me. Becuase she's beautiful
391602_475274075838008_509061533_n.jpg

550750_475110215854394_1432381949_n.jpg

why is that relevant to this thread ?

Becuase she's my daughter....
Dose it bother you???
If so....Thats your fucken problem.

how does that help the original poster though ?
What are you trying to tell him ??
 
We're always taught to try try try but never to sit and think. Is it always worth it to bother? No, it's not. Some things just aren't worth the time,and it seems to take some forever to realize that some things just aren't meant to be. The hardest part is probably accepting whatever it may be and moving on, but society views "giving up" as a weakness, but letting something go is sometimes the better option.
 

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