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Dam cats...welcome!

welcome!

Interested in hearing about your upbringing...please PM if interested in sharing...thanks and welcome.

Hey D welcome! PM me if interested in chatting...curious to know more about your situation. Thanks.

Hello Dan and welcome! Let's chat when you have some time...interested in hearing about your upbringing, and what I might be able to help out with. Please PM if interested- thanks.

Hi everyone...I've been gone from this forum for a while, so I thought I would take a minute to re-introduce myself. I'm here because I USED to share many of the same issues and problems that many of you are dealing with. I was lucky enough to discover my own...

Hey Speck...it sounds like you have a lack of self-confidence/worth/esteem...whatever you want to call it. I'm happy to talk about it in greater detail to find out if I might be able to help out. Feel free to PM me if interested- thanks.

This reply is meant for everyone who posted here...it seems to me that there is something going on inside of all of you that prevents you from just being yourself and allowing friendships to naturally progress. I have a few ideas I am happy to share, as I used to have a similar situation when I...

Hey cruel it's time for you to seek out people who you have similar interests with. Acting stupid for the sake of fitting in doesn't sound like much fun...that's like me trying to act smart! Anyway my point is to find people who you relate to and visa versa.

How old are you edge? I have some thoughts but I'd like to learn a bit more about your upbringing first...if you don't mind sharing. Feel free to send me a private message...thanks.

With #9 what I mean is that, generally speaking, you'll be better off by moving on and not playing the blame game. Of course there are times when you are not at fault for something, and therefore have 0% of the blame to take. But...I've been around too many people who continue to blame others...

Waking up one day and saying...I'm flawed just like everyone else! Why not me? When you accept this truth...things become a lot more clear. I know it seems too simple, and maybe it isn't the answer for everyone...but it can work for many.

Cut through it all. Here's what I mean...suck it up...do whatever you need to do...but get yourself to a point where you are going to let it all hang out there and...get ready...ask her if she wants to do "something sometime?"! Then...shut up and wait for the rejection. If it doesn't...

Nothing special about it really...I was a dorky, fat, glasses-wearing kid from a divorced home in Upstate NY. Dad wasn't around to teach me how to defend myself, act, etc. So I had to figure it all out on my own...how to be a man...how to make friends...how to treat women...how to do it all...

Thanks MM! I want to use my 10 rules to help others...any way I can. I read a lot of these posts...and I see enough similarities to some of the things I went through- before I figured it out. So...if I can give a little back- that would be very cool.