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What do you do if the only girl you love has been in an on and off relationship with someone else for a few years? I think the fact that it's on and off shows that it's eventually going to fail. I hope it does. I'm pretty sure I love her more than he does, though I've never met the other guy...

How can I not? I see it everywhere I go. Where I live there are half naked people walking down the street and sex comes up in almost every conversation. I think our generation is kind of messed up. We have a promiscuous generation, especially where I am. Sex doesn't seem to be anywhere near...

Thanks for the reply. It helped I think. Ya I mean I think something is wrong with our generation basically. Most people are kind of slutty. A lot of serious relationships take a long time to find. And it kind of disgusts me how people just use each other for sex and whatnot. Ya I've had...

Well, still have this problem basically. I'm sick right now at home and feel weird. Some girls are texting me and saying they hope I'm ok. None of them are really a gf though. I can get dates, get kisses, even get some sex. Heck if I went out to a club now there's a decent chance some girl...

Lonesome Crow, nice story man. the-alchemist I understand what you're saying. You want to be in a state of "flow." Just enjoying, taking things as they come, being in the moment, etc. Ya, if you're too conscious of lack, etc this can be harder to achieve. I don't like most girls below 25 or...

Thanks for the replies Lonesome Crow and others. I think you have some wisdom.

I'm looking for more of a happy medium. I live in a country that's developing pretty quickly. It seems like people just want to work and see their friends and "get laid". That phrase has always kind of bothered me. It's so removed from love or "making love." When people say they "Got laid"...

I raise this issue because it's my only main issue. I have a fair amount of friends. Most people like me. Etc... I'm lonely because of the lack of meaningful romantic relationship, including sex. Not just 1 or the other. I'm pretty sure you don't live where I live. A lot of this stuff...

This is basically what makes me feel loneliest of all. Where I live if you talk to most people they've had 1 main relationship. But they've also had sex with 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30+ people. Do you guys think this is normal? It seems strange. It makes me feel lonely. People seem to treat sex...

You're probably just trying to help. I'm talking more about chemistry. I'm not really talking about "getting past" anything. A lot of women like me and I can get positive attention from women almost every time I leave the house if I want to. And the ones I go on dates with usually have a...

Ya. This is kind of a new thing for me. Having sex so quickly. You are lucky because you were in love with Renae at one point. I have never really been in love. I am advancing through my 20s (not too much left), and have had some relationships, dated girls, had sex with a few. None of it...

Well, here it comes. Another thread. A few people come to mind right now. sunbeam, Mazda13bRotary, Lonesome Crow It's sort of related to Mazada13bRotary's thread Does anyone do long term anymore? Also, sunbeam you sound kind of like a girl version of me haha. I have a fair amount of...

Basically 3, romantic relationships. I don't really understand it that much. I have some threads about it on here. I have a fair amount of friends and not just where I live but some places around the world too. Most people like me and my social skills are fine. I'm also taller and better...

I don't know about "our" country. As far as I know this board is international. It's an international problem though. Look at the financial crisis, recession, problems in Europe, America, other countries. Anyway that's a part of what the problem is I think. I liked your first post better...

The answer is, you shouldn't be needy but you can still be in a relationship or want to be in a relationship. There's a natural instinct for love and sex and companionship. Some people get lucky and find the right person for them (and it works out). Some people just have a series of...