Recent content by Hisilarn

The same... I joined like two hours ago:P

Absolutely. When I was around your age I had the same problem, and I did change. These days I'm close to 40, and I need to change myself again (even if it's too late to save my relationship, which was the most important thing in my life). So yes, yes you can. And you should, don't be the clever...

A big group of people is just lots of small groups of people. Try to grab all opportunities to feel 'alive' while you are young, if you do not, you well regret later. I'm talking from experience.

There are many reasons. Luck is one of them. But if two shy people are just sitting there, waiting for each other, well, nothing will happen. Take the lead. Seriously, anyone who is able to talk on a forum can do it real life too -- do you have anything to lose?

Drunks see things differently. That's why two drunk people could understand each other better. But if you're sober and the other guy drunk, he may just forget all this later. Not everything what happened, but the way he felt, it's a different state of mind. Maybe it is easier to socialize with...

Since many artists try to explain it for like thousands of years, I guess there is no easy answer... you feel it, or you do not. You can be in love for a very long time, that doesn't mean you feel it hundred percent all the time though.

It's natural to feel empty and dead after a serious relationship. A few words probably won't make you feel better, but I have been through this quite a few times (I'm not too young anymore). Time always helped. Also meditation, it just turns off your brain and makes you calm, if you do it right.

Strangers have no idea how confident you are. They have no expectations, doesn't matter how shy you were to others. Just gather your courage and do the first step. You just have to decide that you want to be confident -- actually I did the same. Also, you can be both confident and intelligent at...

I used to be alone a lot lately as well. I work(ed) in a foreign country, pretty far from home. Also my girlfriend left me a few months ago, after a very, very long time. I kind of lost interest in everything, and I became really depressed. One day I decided that it can't go on like this...