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Just posting this here as a way to vent my frustration.  I already know the advice most will give and i know the solution myself. But the journey is hard and i dont have anyone to talk it thru with.  So i figured if i put in writing, i could type away the frustration at the very least. Just...

Got back on the wagon so to speak and dated a girl. Tried to go into it with the advice from here and as a result i had one of the best dates of my life.  I was relaxed and less stressed. Its a girl from online again. The connection was almost instantaneous from the first message.  Really...

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Came to the realisation im lonely because im boring.  I can never get past 2 dates.   When im on a date with a girl i like, i go shy, i try force myself out of it, but i cant really and because of my lifestyle and situation ive nothing really of interest to say. Im 35, employed with a passion...

OK had a date last sat.  The lead up was great, texting back n forth like a tennis match, long phone calls, all looking good. Date day: We climbed Arthurs Seat in Edinburgh.  Nothing too taxing or challenging and both into wanderlust.   During the climb she was touchy feely, holding onto my arm...

i have a problem when it comes to dating i can attract girls online of all types but when i find one that likes me as much as i like her i struggle to develop it into something more. online chat and even talking on the phone, i can be charming, funny, witty and a interesting guy but as soon...

Hi, ive been seeing a girl now for 2 months. It started off great - the first 2/3 weeks were magical and awesome. Then things suddenly became more difficult to where its reached its point now. I have my issues, being on here you can likely guess what they are. she also has her demons and...

Dating a girl. Thought it was getting serious and finally my bad luck over.  But now all i can sense is she will break up with me. No idea when just know its coming  Feel stupid thinking i could be loved

Sill cant break the loneliness. Went through different stages of it. Complete isolation because of depression to living a busy life but still the same result. Sat night is the only period in the week when ive nothing to do except study and nowehere to go . Feel like ive outta options tried to...

Hi, Having a rubbish saturday night. so much going in my head needed to get it out. No one really to talk it out with, so thats why im here. Recently went on a date with a girl. In fact it wast this time last week. It was a setup. A girl i got talking to online months ago, but never got...

Feeling down today. Ever had that feeling where you've just been getting on with life surviving you almost forget your sad lonely guy. Then bang life chucks something at you and reminds you how much or a loser you are, before you get too big for your boots and feel nothing but suicidal. Has...

I feel pretty down tonight, im trying to play it off and not read anything into it. But it just stings. So this evening, i ended up randomly in a gym class with my next doors neighbours daughter, or so i believe to be. I have never spoken to her or met her before. I just recognised her. But...

as the headline says, how do you do it? Ive tried allsorts to breakdown these walls of isolation. church, gym classes all sorts... and whilst ive improved my social network to an extent that i know more people, when it comes to the crunch, im still spending every night alone. i love summer...

Im really struggling to deal with my life right now. every day someone tears me down and tries to make me feel bad. The only people who dont do this are my immediate family. you might say so what, words can hurt, and yes fair enough, you can choose not to let them get to you. but when its...

Ive been living a lonely life for years now and its really driving me down. However, i decided to try take action since just before christmas. Ive been attending church, instead of working out alone, going to fitness classes. Talking to random people in situations that seem appropriate. Etc...

ive written a couple of threads this week and its brought me to the conclusion im lost......... im 32 lots to be thankful for, i.e. good house, good job, family close by. But i lack companionship and love and fun and friendship in my life. I tried filling this gap with a woman, but ive...

How do you find online? Im a member of a few sites and yet it seems impossible to find a connection. I find it hard to single out a woman i would be genuinely interested in. There[s soo many, it just seems like a sea of faces. So i lose motivation to write any first messages. Plus when i...

Just really here to get rid of these thoughts. Dont have anyone to share it with. 3 months ago i got talking to a girl off a christian website. Before her i just finished with a girl who was a catfish. It was a very frustrating and you could say damaging relationship. Didnt end well lets...

just been on a date, no idea how it went, because literally just happened more or less. im starved of attention from women in my life and i crave it soo much. So how can i be sure i really like this girl and im not just happy any women is showing me some attention? I mean i did like her, cant...

sick of my luckless love life. i get rejected by every woman i pursue. So much soo ive never had a proper relationship. Closest ive got is 3 months long distance. Im a nice guy, i workout, but im average to ugly at best. anyways decided to try a experiment to see what it would be like if i...