hitch1983
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Ive been living a lonely life for years now and its really driving me down. However, i decided to try take action since just before christmas.
Ive been attending church, instead of working out alone, going to fitness classes. Talking to random people in situations that seem appropriate. Etc.
Ive been doing this now for a month and a bit now and ive yet to make any real connections yet. Really starting to get me down.
Starting to feel more trapped than before.
Tonight was a real low point. Attended a fitness class. A spin one.
Got there early. Picked a bike set it up. Not many others in. But made my prescence sorta known by saying hi if they entered the room. But ended up training alone more or less.
Every person who attended the class picked a bike no where near me. And as the numbers increased and bikes decreased. Ya would think surely ill have someone next to me to talk to casually.....
No....not at all. There ended up being 2 bikes spare and guess which one they were.....thats right. The ones either side of me...
Really hurt. I mean do i give off such a bad vibe. Am i soo ugly or what.
Also another situation hit my bones hard.
tried to message a girl on a dating website. Tried to personalise the message to something about her on her profile.
Blocked....wasnt rude...wasnt nasty...wasnt even pushy.
Blocked....soo really down just now...starting to feel i should go back to my prison that is my house and rot...
Dunno what i expect by posting this. If anything its giving me a outlet for my pain. But if you have any messages of hope. Please share.
Ive been attending church, instead of working out alone, going to fitness classes. Talking to random people in situations that seem appropriate. Etc.
Ive been doing this now for a month and a bit now and ive yet to make any real connections yet. Really starting to get me down.
Starting to feel more trapped than before.
Tonight was a real low point. Attended a fitness class. A spin one.
Got there early. Picked a bike set it up. Not many others in. But made my prescence sorta known by saying hi if they entered the room. But ended up training alone more or less.
Every person who attended the class picked a bike no where near me. And as the numbers increased and bikes decreased. Ya would think surely ill have someone next to me to talk to casually.....
No....not at all. There ended up being 2 bikes spare and guess which one they were.....thats right. The ones either side of me...
Really hurt. I mean do i give off such a bad vibe. Am i soo ugly or what.
Also another situation hit my bones hard.
tried to message a girl on a dating website. Tried to personalise the message to something about her on her profile.
Blocked....wasnt rude...wasnt nasty...wasnt even pushy.
Blocked....soo really down just now...starting to feel i should go back to my prison that is my house and rot...
Dunno what i expect by posting this. If anything its giving me a outlet for my pain. But if you have any messages of hope. Please share.