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Not at all. Women hate men who show their emotions too often and too intensely. One flower a year is okay, and she's probably happy about it, but that's really the highest permissible amount.

Very lovely, but where I come from, this would mean the end of the relationship, and I guess this is true for the vast majority of girls in the West (US/most of Europe/etc.) between the ages of 16 and 26. Virtually no chick in that age range wants a lovey-dovey guy. I would really love to show...

Chicks here don't find that behaviour acceptable. And if you aren't very good-looking they will laugh at you, or keep ignoring you, or throw away the flowers, etc. In no way is that kind of effort worth it. Well, yes. I agree.

Where the fresia do you live? That kind of honeysuckle gets you publicly humiliated here. I admit, it sounds lovely and it should be seen as such but in reality it just doesn't work. The one (and as far as I am aware of only) thing that can get you a girlfriend in real-life is a large-ish social network...

Nope. Girls treat me like I am sexually invisible in real-life. I do get to know pretty women fairly easily online on boards, though. That's how I got all of my dates, girlfriends, and lays so far.

Well, I am 22. I did the same thing when I turned 21 as I did when I turned 20, or 18, or 16, namely nothing. I stopped celebrating my birthdays when I was 12. I told my family to fuckin' forget about me and not mention it to me on that day, not before and not after. It took a while to force it...

Just ask her out. If she refuses to, or isn't interested, or if she accepts and then tells you about her boyfriend while on a "date" with you, you know that it's never going to go anywhere with this girl.

Mh. I am not sure if that's what I was trying to communicate. Well, of course, if you don't think about it, it shouldn't bother you. That thought of you being garbage is apparently triggered by social situations? Do you have social anxiety? What I was trying to say is that your brain changes...

Given the extreme variability of the brain and its/your body's neural wiring it is not at all evident that behavioural or cognitive issues of such subjective value have a genetic origin. It is, of course, entirely possible that your tendency to see yourself as garbage is genetic, in the sense...

What kind of genetic inferiority do you believe to have? It is impossible to prove that you are a failure, because your intent to prove it influences the result. It makes you fail. It is illogical to conclude from such an outcome that you are, indeed, a failure.

If you have to ask if a girl likes you, chances are very high that she really doesn't. As LC said, they'll go out of their way to make it known to you that they'll into you. Girls who keep you at a distance usually aren't interested. Only very few women distance themselves when they are...

Perhaps this has been asked before, or perhaps it doesn't pertain to your problem for some reason but: Are there any single women in your social circle / area?

This is exactly what I was trying to allude to. The point is in distinguishing between a lack of worth/value which is purely imagined (i.e. a false belief) and a lack of worth/value which is the simple consequence of ranking low in some sort of competition. Clearly, we all are of equal worth...

Finding single women is already hard enough, not to mention getting dates and a relationship out of it. True love does not exist. There are no soul-mates and there is no unique compatible partner. There -are- compatible partners, many, probably, but still negligibly few compared to the vast...

Hey. :) I am new to this precious board, and no other sub-forum seemed fit for this post, so @mods feel free to move it should I've overlooked something. Yesterday when I was yet again stalking profiles of people I know on Facebook I realised that my ex-oneitis' new boyfriend is inherently...

This is impressive. :) I have always destroyed my artistic creations because I didn't like them. Now I finally understand that it wasn't irrational to do so. (I suspected my lack of artistic ability earlier, but now that I think about it, it's pretty clear). You clearly have a talent and you...