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I think the desire to find an 'enemy' is an inherited genetic tendency, and when it's combined with psychological trauma we can become 'hateful'. And I think the desire to compete is genetic (especially for men), and it can be healthy (sports, non maliciious motivation to better yourself). But...

Thanks sofia. And thanks Jabba, hopefully my laptop will get fixed soon.

Probably performance anxiety. Happened to me at my first time. Try not masturbating for while. You'll get to a point where you'll break down a wall using raw determination to have sex with a woman. Many guys online claim that they had ED issues, until they stopped masturbating to porn for a...

I'm glad to read your attempting to make your family life better. I'm into online adult marketing and one thing is I know is that women in the sex industry are highly skilled at making men feel significant and that the experience is 'more' than what it is. They may not be academically smart...

Depression yes, anxiety no (but great improvement in that area). I spent from around 17 to 22-23 in the darkness of depression, I even had a suicide attempt when I was 17. This year I've lost my job, separated from my wife, have ran in financial trouble, and am on the verge of losing my flat...

I've had the same issue as the OP. I'm guessing they are using the term nice to mean being benign and overly compliant towards others, like I do. In my case, my 'niceness' came at the price of my self respect, and denying my innate natural aggression and desire for boundaries. I'd smile and...

Thanks for the welcomes guys. :-)

I'm inclined towards philosophical naturalism but during time talking to 'spritual people' and MBTI I've developed some thoughts on my 'dark side'. When we deny or disown our sexual energy, resentment, innate natural aggression, or desire for boundaries we create an alternate 'persona' or...

I agree with Kat and Tropicalstarfish; natural selection. I keep meaning to read a pop science book that tries to show that our positive and negative behaviours (from romantic love, to social violence) are found in our primate cousins. The book is called; Shadows of Forgotten Ancestors by Carl...

Hey guys, I'm a 28 yr old male living in the midlands, and a lonely guy. I've had psychological challenges for most of my life and in my social interactions have alternated between being obnoxious, submissive or 'weird' and as a result I don't have any lasting meaningful friendships. But over...