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heretostay; I have worked as a barman and waiter and construction site worker, so I know how "shitty" jobs are. And that's definitely not something I want to do. There's nothing wrong with school, but I also need a hobby, something that I'm passionate about. I just went to my friend's house for...

While pondering over this question, I somehow found myself in Wikipedia reading about Buddhism, which in turn led me to the Zen article. That way I ended up in these two sites; http://www.zenguide.com/ http://www.mro.org/zmm/teachings/meditation.php What Buddhism and Zen philosophies basically...

Nah, we're just friends with benefits.

But where to find the energy to search when you don't see where you're heading and you can't see the destination?

It is the rule of life, my brother No matter how far you go you'll eventually end up where you began No matter how much you change; you'll turn your head to where you're happy again No matter how much you tame it; you can never silence the monster inside your brain No matter where you go, my...

Great to see that I am not the only one feeling this emptiness. I think what this all comes down to is the search for the meaning of life. I can't help but feel worthless; a beast created without a function. Now try not to be depressed. =/

goneNforgotten22; wow, that's tough man, real tough. Even though I don't know you, it's great to hear you've been able to recover from that situation and you are eager to begin a new life. I sincerely wish you ALL the best, take care buddy, I wish you success and happiness in everything you do...

Ah, okay - I didn't really look at the time stamps. I thought he just wasn't getting any response in his previous thread(s). Next time I probably should read the whole thread through...

Hey all, I just wanted to ask if you guys have any passions; something you love to do when you want to have time for yourself and relax; something that makes you feel alive and what you do with your heart, out of pure interest and willingness to do; something at what you express yourself...

I'm an expert when it comes to procrastinating.

I know how you feel Marcus. I think it's because we experience life in a different way than most of the people here, and we bring out our feelings and experiences in quite a harsh and straightforward way, so they can't say anything constructive since they don't know how we feel. It's kind of...

We too have very few girls in our Engineering departments, but here everyone is trying to approach them. :D It's kinda funny how the "nerdy" shy girls from high school have become like princesses here, surrounded by the anti-social boys. Anyway, sad to hear that you don't have many "own"...

Yup, that's human nature. =/ I'm verbally quite poor but I'll try to write about some experiences I've had. I think women feel the urge to conquer men who don't blindly do everything women say, who have their own will and opinions and like to dominate the woman. Now combine good looks with the...

Actually I suggested that he has two drunk days per week max, which I think is bearable even if you have the kind of a problem that when you go out you're never satisfied with one or two. I can never make it with a couple of drinks either, but I do have quite a control over the days I am drunk...

Nice to hear that it went well. :) Good idea not trying any moves. Next time if you hang out be sure to try some small physical contacts, and see how she reacts. I've experienced that second dates are the ones that decide whether you'll drop into the friend zone or not.

The notorious friend zone. I gotta agree with It Was Mine on this, let her go. Completely break away from her for a few months (no talking phones texts msn) until you get over her, then reconsider if you want to reconnect. It's hard but it worked for me.

Used to be. Amazing how relationships change people.

Hmm, apparently my reply got somehow deleted... New try; http://g1.kuvake.net/mirror/4/000/819/40008195607.jpg

What I did may sound very pathetic and wrong, which I don't deny, but unfortunately, stuff like this is constantly happening, also to other people. I'm not your ideal cute, beautiful inside romantic boy - I'm an egoistic, selfish, all around f**ked up guy, a kind that every philosophy on world...

There's this girl who used to frequent the bar I was working in. She usually came there with her friend or boyfriend, and we'd always have some small chit chat but nothing further than that. Anyway, a couple of days ago she invited me to this student party. You probably guess what happened, but...