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I can better leave this forum, because it is making me too grumpy. Goodbye to you all.

To the society. But, i am mostly completely independent. Ten years ago i had the feeling that i wasn't part of society. That i was more like an observer. I was mostly interested in philosophy and science and not in human contact. Due to depression i didn't want to live anymore, but i was too...

Maybe it is not just disgust but also the lack of desire. Last year i was trying to get a girlfriend, but mostly out of a sense of obligation. At the moment i just don't have the wish for it at all. In the last few years there was nobody with whom i would want a relationship with. It is also my...

I guess it's just not my thing. I think i stay single.

Glad to know that i am not the only one thinking like that.

I don't like abondoning people. So, i guess i am against experimenting. Like i said, i think i am conservative.

Yeah, my sister is 30, and there are still guys falling in love with her.

The problem with rich people who take you for your looks is that they might very well disgard you when you are odl and ugly. If you choose for a poor guy, or a well to do guy, than he might still want you when you are old, because he has just as little chances as you. Don't sell your youthfull...

Last evening i was watching a television program, called Café de Liefde, or love pub. It is a program about love, relationships, being single. A lady of my age, 32, said she was single and she was dating a lot. She was dating with ten guys at the same time. This made me angry. It has to do with...

I thought about a response, but i have nothing to add to this!

A female friend of mine has the same problem. Strange thing is, that she doesn't seem different from other people who i am friends with. I can't see the difference between the effort to be liked and the people who don't seem to care. I guess, if you stop trying to be liked, you will be just as...

There are a lot of other things in life than sex and enjoying the moment. What about family life, a hobby (Darwin dedicated his whole life to biology and geology). I like good food and cooking. I like talking with with friends in the pub. And what about these endless discussions on politics...

There are also a lot of guys who can't get dates, so why not date with one of them?

The first two times i was in love with a girl i dated, she didn't dare to say that she liked another boy as well. And, when they finally said that they liked someone else, they wanted to be my friend. Afterwards i was paranoid for years. These girls mistook being in love with a kind of...

Talking to people was for me a major problem years ago. If i was in a group, i was often silent, and so i didn't make much friends. I am dancing right now with a lot of girls, and they have the tendency of ignoring me, by not responding if i say something. But i don't quit it, otherwise i will...

I had a shitty evening tonight and am loadedly drunk. I went to meet a friend and saw 5 others of his. But, i am too grumpy lately, like in the last few years. I was not a great asset to the company. Didn't say so far that i could be a model. But there were two guys like me as well. One of them...

Yeah, he could have better run away with his would be bride to Holland and live there.

I used to feel like that for years from 1999 to 2001. Since 2001 i can't be like that anymore, because i try to stay active instead of passive and solve the problem of loneliness, by joining social activities and by doing things at home, like creating a historical atlas for Wikipedia. Last two...

It can also be plain easy. Some women are really specific. I think it is best to be a bit critical yourself, so when you really like someone, that person knows it is sincere.

The example of Sofiasmami is the stereotype. Her father would hardly be able to get a 20 year younger wife in the western world, so for him a Philipine lady is a good solution. But, why would the lady want him and not someone from her own country and age group? Back in the old age individuals...