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Well a big step for me. Normally I listen to my headphones without a care in the world. My battery was dead today (oh my) and well. After...about I don't know 40 minutes I finally plucked up the courage to talk to a stranger...a opposite gender stranger. At first I felt nothing, as the time...

I need some encouragement...maybe. OR something else I don't know. Feelings of doubt The thing is I'm not good at these things. On one hand I could leave tomorrow and never go back there and probably feel nothing. On the other hand something has been bothering me...more later but right now I'm...

That's a good idea. I never thought about giving the piece of paper to the girl. What I used to do was write down what I wanted to say down as it should have been, and say it to her. Once (obviously a different person) I even brought it out and referred to it. Never thought about actually giving...

Thanks for being so kind. Yes. I think I documented in here somewhere my 'experiences' of women - I.e. none. I also don't have any friends. So this is an even bigger deal for me than someone else. From my observations it seems most people like to talk. I don't feel the need to talk all the...

Don't know what to say. Went in again. She did not seem that bothered. Or she was busy. Or she did not want anyone to know that she talks to me. Any case this is way over my head. So I obviously did not ask her anything. On the weekend when I saw her I said hope you are feeling better. She...

Nah I don't know. Right now I feel in the way. It felt uncomfortable so I didn't ask her. When I went up to her I said 'hello' she said 'I didn't see you come in' ??? Ask her about work etc etc Never been good with people. Thanks for your help anyway.

Thank you very much for your replies. I was at work so could not add the detail to the post. Didn't want others to find out etcetc. When I first went in I was looking for her casually looking around trying not to raise suspicion. I saw her at the back talking to one of her colleagues. If my...

Update. Ok well, I'll explain the story so you can see if I acted inappropriately. Well I went for lunch at my normal time. Smiled and said hi. She seemed busy so didn't really talk. Had my lunch, put it in bin. Was about to leave but thought to myself I should go speak to her Went up to her...

Ok so the good news is I plucked up the courage to ask her. (Thanks guys!!!) The bad news is I did not get a definite yes and thought of something to say AFTER I left. LMAO I'm terrible like this. Saw her today, she looked really sad. Asked her how she was etc etc...sympathized with her for a...

Being socially inexperienced has hindered my ability to know what is and what is not appropriate. Therefore I seek advice from the more well versed and also from those who have a theoretical solution. I have got a new job. I commute 2 hours on the bus each way. At lunch times I go for lunch at...

Well this is strange, I didn't mention this before because I was unsure whether or not they were serious. But my old employer has asked me if I would like to work at a different location since a former work colleague told him I am still out of work. How nice. Apparently someone is leaving so I...

Wow what well received replies. I really appreciate it - you guys have made me feel better already so thank you very much. Punisher, I would argue since you replied to this topic and disclosed you had read the whole thread and not found it boring was something kind to say, I thank you...

Prelude Not quite five o'clock (hoping to go to sleep before then) but thoughts still fill my head to the years that have passed me by. I'm too craven to walk the streets, even if they are empty (so now I write on here) and it is only myself and my immediate "nuclear" family whom really only...