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  1. stalinorgel

    I'm a complete total ******* loser

    I figured that would be the response proffered. It's understandable. We have certain taboos/superstitions in our age, amongst which is that highly informed adults who choose to self-medicate for depression or other ailments are automatically putting themselves at incredible risk. Of course, we...
  2. stalinorgel

    I'm a complete total ******* loser

    You should probably take up drug use. It'd atleast act as a surrogate endorphin complex that normal people get to enjoy. It's one of the cruel facts of modern life that dysgenic losers such as ourselves are denied by law the one thing that would make us happier.
  3. stalinorgel

    I'd like to have a girlfriend...

    I'm in the same boat, mostly (have my own place), and you're probably correct in that no woman will ever pay attention to you. In the words of Tony Montana "first you get the money, then you get the power, THEN you get the woman." It is biologically impossible for most women to be attracted to...
  4. stalinorgel

    What are you thinking right now?

    The anthem of the USSR is so awesome.. too bad it's about a bunch of mass murdering totalitarians.
  5. stalinorgel

    Why do you love alonelylife?

    Why do we love this place? Misery loves company? LOL.. j/k Lots of interesting stories, and people..
  6. stalinorgel

    Why Did You Choose Avatar/Sig/Name That You Did?

    Ginko, from the anime Mushishi.. I like to think I'm a lot like him, but I'm probably jusALLHAILTHEHYPNOTOAD
  7. stalinorgel

    I am scared. I am new. I am alone.

    Welcome! One thing that has helped me with my social phobia is this sort of mindset: imagine the vastness of the cosmos, and worlds innumerable, and how life on earth is virtually a mote of sand in a desert, and think to yourself, who are these people to me? Why should I be afraid of them?
  8. stalinorgel

    Lets see the Faces!!!

    Heck, I'm bored as all hell.. why not? **** I need a haircut.
  9. stalinorgel

    What are you thinking right now?

    Rejected.. not sure how much longer I can live like this. It's insane. God is a hateful god (it says it in the Bible--OT--I'm a Christian).. and He hates me deeply. I understand why I think. I'm just not a good person and deserve incredible misery apparently. I wish so bad I had the courage to...
  10. stalinorgel

    Are there any good men out there?

    I sure hope there are! If not, the world is doomed! lol. There's plenty of good men on this site from what I can see. I understand your skepticism towards men, however. Men sometimes really do not know what they have in women until they lose them.
  11. stalinorgel

    A counter-argument to the claim personality > physical looks

    I didn't mean it so much as that women are incapable of it, but it's more of a subconscious thing, i think. Very true. In our consumerist, uberindividualist culture.. i sometimes wonder if it is actually possible for man or woman to truly be mature. (Just musing to myself here.) As for your...
  12. stalinorgel

    Why Don't You Just Have One

    really? i am seriously interested in knowing how. it was to my knowledge that homosexuality was an inborn condition that has to do with hormonal balance in the womb. i've actually tried becoming gay, by, uh, doing my thang to gay pornography and such, but it never worked.. i'm simply not...
  13. stalinorgel

    sigh

    That's quite the koan you have there. Well, it's not a koan, but it makes me feel smart to use that word. Read the Bhagavad-Gita (or Hermann Hesse's Siddharta, if the BG is a bit too arcane). It has a great deal of wisdom on essentially what you just mentioned. Life is fleeting, full of...
  14. stalinorgel

    A counter-argument to the claim personality > physical looks

    Well, I agree with the gist of your argument, but I believe this rule of thumb applies more to men than women. A guy can pass on by (the universal chicks' attractive test, that is) having a good personality, but only if he also has looks or great material wealth, or possibly great...
  15. stalinorgel

    Why Don't You Just Have One

    I think (speaking for the males here--well, no, myself), females are so incredibly intimidating. So beautiful, yet so distant. If one approaches them for anything resembling love or a relationship very bad things can happen. Souls are crushed. The ego becomes damned to the pits of self-hate...
  16. stalinorgel

    What do you like about yourself?

    I think my greatest asset/value is my ability to see reality for what it is, without naivete or idealism which can cloud rational judgment. I suppose that's where my "belief" in (semi)fatalism and eugenics comes from--a sense that some things simply are and cannot be changed. It is also the...
  17. stalinorgel

    It's Valentine's Day

    Yeah, this Valentines Day sure has me on edge. I met this really cute chubby girl on craigslist near me (today of all days).. who actually has the very same interests as me, to the friggin' T.. I send her my pictures, and hasn't really responded.. bah life sucks.
  18. stalinorgel

    Is it even worth trying?

    Mhm, yep. I'm sorta lucky though, my tolerance is kinda odd. Just did two bags (D) and Im feeling pretty good. Usually two doesnt do too much.. but im lucky :) maybe it's just good stuff.. Indeed indeed. words of wisdom. indeed, i suppose i just hope for a girl to somewhat 'rescue me'.. a...
  19. stalinorgel

    tried to make friends, but they've disappointed me...

    The mean person you describe is probably bipolar or something. I know someone very much like that. They're very nasty when not on their meds, almost evil in some ways, depending on the degree. Stay away from negative people like that like the plague. Most people are in general friendly...
  20. stalinorgel

    Is it even worth trying?

    It's extremely likely. Every anti-depressant I've taken truly sucks though.. I wish I could find the right one.. (correctly on Zoloft). Anyone have any suggestions? Preferably one that gives me "energy".. that is something I sorely need...
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