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Judgment by people.
#1
Why people judges me ?I don't  understand  ,it's  very hard to live in social.
  Even I can't  do something for me.I am scare  all time because of their judgment.
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#2
I'm sorry you are going through this. Judgment is not easy for most people to deal with, who's judgment are you fearing?
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#3
(12-27-2016, 06:37 PM)Skyless Wrote: I'm sorry you are going through this. Judgment is not easy for most people to deal with, who's judgment are you fearing?
persons they live near me.
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#4
I am sorry, too, that you are going through this. Some people can be very judgemental. Could you move away and start afresh elsewhere?
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(12-27-2016, 07:09 PM)Tiina63 Wrote: I am sorry, too, that you are going through this.  Some people can be very judgemental.  Could you move away and start afresh elsewhere?

This is not right time for me.but Iam trying to move as fast as possible.thank you guys.
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#6
I'm a bit hesitant to give you really specific actionable advice, because I don't know your situation or age or relationship to these local people who are judging you and I think that would be irresponsible of me.

But I will tell you if you have some family or a close friend or partner or teacher talk to them about it if you haven't already. Tell them exactly what it happening and how it's affecting you. I'm wondering if you are using judgment interchangeably with bullying but either way it's not ok Sad I'm really sorry it's happening to you try to keep in mind that their judgement is THEIR judgment, try not to let that in as much as possible odds are their opinions aren't with a single breath.
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#7
Yeah they're close relatives.your advice is good.and Iam very thankfull for you becouse all i need someone support, and no one was with me.I can try to make them understand about my feeling.
Thank you.Skyless.Smile
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#8
Hiya Pino. Smile

Just checking in to see how you are doing, has the judgey situation improved? Where you able to speak with somone near you who understood?

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(12-27-2016, 05:55 PM)pinocio Wrote: Why people judges me ?I don't  understand  ,it's  very hard to live in social.
  Even I can't  do something for me.I am scare  all time because of their judgment.

It's a judgmental world... I really don't understand why people choose to be this way without knowing someone first. Media, family and social influence? 

I know it's harder said than done but try to remember the only person's opinion that really counts is yours when it comes to judging yourself. 

My guess is people judge because it deflects them from facing their own judgment.
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#10
Everyone judges. EVERYONE. It's built into us all - it's how we naturally asses a potential threat of any kind. I think often people judge negatively based on their own opinions and life experiences.
People are always going to judge other people. I feel the best way to deal with it is to know your own worth and eventually, negative judgements won't mean as much to you and won't have such a negative impact on you. Good luck.
“Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I will try again tomorrow.’”
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