LifePath1
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What traits that are considered "unattractive" do you find attractive?
So as I flicked through some of the threads today, I noticed a reoccurring pattern. People believing they are ugly... I don't know why.. but a lot of people here seem to have pretty low self-esteem and a low opinion of themselves. If not because of their looks, then even their personalities. Claiming they talk too much or not enough, that they are too shy or whatever! So I came up with this idea!
I thought it would be great if everyone posted seemingly "unattractive" features that they like in a potential partner! Or even just people in general. As think it will be interesting to see some of the responses! You can just leave a list or give details to your list, it's completely up to you!
For me, I don't believe in ugly. So it's hard for me to say. But I'll tell you some "unattractive traits" that I personally like! Here I go!
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Geeks/nerds: They're passionate and intelligent. I love seeing someone passionate about anything! Even if that's some Japanese anime series I've never heard of, or medieval architecture lol! Tell me why you find it so interesting!
Chubby: I don't know why, but I've always liked chubby women. Depending on how they carry themselves they can either come off as amazingly cute, or strong and domineering! Also I always imagine Friday nights being more fun! Can you imagine ordering a pizza with someone and halfway through ordering they say "Oh god no! Too many calories.. I've eaten my carbs for the day"?
"Bitchy": Now this one will be controversial. But I love someone who knows what they want in life. I'm quite happy putting up with your mood swings and outbursts, it makes things interesting! I'm not talking about lobbing shoes at my head "bitchy"... but if you're highly driven, I expect you to be on edge some days!
Eccentric: In my ideal world, everyone would be considered eccentric. Most people have an inner you that's bursting to get out yet very few embrace it. Eccentrics are the people that do! As I said about passion, I don't care what it is! I love personality.
An Overbite: Not anything drastic, but Chloe Moretz I think her name is, is a good example. It's cute, I don't know what else I can say about that one really!
Shy: As Peter Andre once said " Woah woah woah, mysterious girl! I wanna get close to you" god that song was awful, but it was the first thing that came to my head when I thought of a shy girl! For me, there's nothing more beautiful than a shy girl that doesn't know she's so beautiful. Sometimes it's because they're insecure, sometimes they're just quiet. But usually it's the quietest person who has the most to say!
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I had to leave many more things out! Including freckles, height, fashion sense, and many more! I'm sure many of you will be able to come up with even more! I want this to be a thread people could visit when feeling insecure and get a little boost. So please don't hold back!
Thank you!
So as I flicked through some of the threads today, I noticed a reoccurring pattern. People believing they are ugly... I don't know why.. but a lot of people here seem to have pretty low self-esteem and a low opinion of themselves. If not because of their looks, then even their personalities. Claiming they talk too much or not enough, that they are too shy or whatever! So I came up with this idea!
I thought it would be great if everyone posted seemingly "unattractive" features that they like in a potential partner! Or even just people in general. As think it will be interesting to see some of the responses! You can just leave a list or give details to your list, it's completely up to you!
For me, I don't believe in ugly. So it's hard for me to say. But I'll tell you some "unattractive traits" that I personally like! Here I go!
_____________________
Geeks/nerds: They're passionate and intelligent. I love seeing someone passionate about anything! Even if that's some Japanese anime series I've never heard of, or medieval architecture lol! Tell me why you find it so interesting!
Chubby: I don't know why, but I've always liked chubby women. Depending on how they carry themselves they can either come off as amazingly cute, or strong and domineering! Also I always imagine Friday nights being more fun! Can you imagine ordering a pizza with someone and halfway through ordering they say "Oh god no! Too many calories.. I've eaten my carbs for the day"?
"Bitchy": Now this one will be controversial. But I love someone who knows what they want in life. I'm quite happy putting up with your mood swings and outbursts, it makes things interesting! I'm not talking about lobbing shoes at my head "bitchy"... but if you're highly driven, I expect you to be on edge some days!
Eccentric: In my ideal world, everyone would be considered eccentric. Most people have an inner you that's bursting to get out yet very few embrace it. Eccentrics are the people that do! As I said about passion, I don't care what it is! I love personality.
An Overbite: Not anything drastic, but Chloe Moretz I think her name is, is a good example. It's cute, I don't know what else I can say about that one really!
Shy: As Peter Andre once said " Woah woah woah, mysterious girl! I wanna get close to you" god that song was awful, but it was the first thing that came to my head when I thought of a shy girl! For me, there's nothing more beautiful than a shy girl that doesn't know she's so beautiful. Sometimes it's because they're insecure, sometimes they're just quiet. But usually it's the quietest person who has the most to say!
_________________________
I had to leave many more things out! Including freckles, height, fashion sense, and many more! I'm sure many of you will be able to come up with even more! I want this to be a thread people could visit when feeling insecure and get a little boost. So please don't hold back!
Thank you!