Who here goes / has been to a prostitute/escort?

^_^ awwww...don't downplay your skills!

LOL and I don't think that "career path" goes very far anyway.

----Steve

You might regret it...or you might not. It depends. Is this something that you'll be able to tell a future mate? Will it bother you if you hide it from your future mate? *shrug* Only time can tell, I guess.

Haha well the positive thing is that escorts and prosties are good at what they do...it's their job. If it works for you, go for it! Just be careful about disease...don't make the mistake of thinking that you're the only guy those women see in a day.

Personally, I just wouldn't be able to get past the PAYING for it part...it just seems to businesslike and impersonal to me. There's no deeper connection aside from sweaty bodies. I guess if you're fine with that, then...well, you're fine with it. To each their own, and at least you enjoyed it.

----Steve

i would say tell your future mate..

if i met a guy and liked him ...if he had been to a prostitute or not wont mean that i'd like him any less at all..

and i think its the same for most ppl.

*The Cursed One* said:

To be honest I couldn't see myself getting a future mate any time soon, but having done what I did today, I somehow suspect (against all odds) I'll end up getting one anyway and then I'll be faced with the awkward decision whether to tell them or not... sod's law :rolleyes2:

As you said, only time will tell, and if that time comes I'll have to deal with it.

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never imagined needing it so badly that i would part with my hard earned cash..

I concidered it once as I reached my 20s. I eventually didn't have to pay for what happened,in cash,but emotionally...It killed me.
I was naive enough to think that,the first person I was with wanted more than what he really wanted.
I also realized I wanted to have that cuddling afterward,and I knew it probably wouldn't happen with an escort,but looking back now...it didn't happen with the first.

He had a pretty good game.

Lost my virginity to a prostitute while drunk.

Regret it? Yes.

I was looking for this thread....

I too lost my virgininty to a prostitute.

I tried to find one on craigslist when I was in Boise, but I'm scared they're all cops.

And they actually don't have to tell you they are if you ask. That's a myth :|

Brian said:

I tried to find one on craigslist when I was in Boise, but I'm scared they're all cops.

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Sometimes they ARE cops, but it's STILL hard to tell, because you just think that the handcuffs are a part of the fun. XD haha

Sorry to resurrect an old thread, but its nice to see the use of escorts/prostitutes being spoke of in a positive manner (at least not in a hateful manner!). I have some major sex and intimacy issues, and have been on the other side of the coin (pun intended). I am a woman under 30 years of age, and for a short time I was an escort I guess you could say. I wasn't a street walker, but didn't work for an agency. I would answer craigslist ads that Generous men would post, back before the feds made CL do their crack down. I have a very hard time connecting to men and prefer random, emotionless sex. I was feeling very lonely and needing some attention, and giving it away for free to men I have no feelings for is almost more disgusting and degrading to me than getting paid (well). It was a huge ego boost to work 3 hours and make what a lot of people work a full time week for (around here at least, I know wages are different in every state lol). Plus I got a sick (like mentally ill) but major rush out of the risks involved, luckily nothing bad ever happened to me, I am thankful for that. The men who paid for it were much kinder and more appreciative of my time and energy I spent on them, than most of the men I have given it away to. One guy got me closer to orgasm than any other man has before ever! I had to stop because my family was noticing me being gone for periods of time with little explanation, and having more money (I still live at home), also I was starting to get some anxiety and weird feelings despite the fact I had a lot of fun.

I carry a lot of guilt from it now, and sometimes something on TV will strike up a conversation between family about prostitutes and of course good things are never said, and even though they of course don't know they are talking about me, it still hurts me. Also, for the first time in 6 years I have a man sort of interested in me (aside from the escort thing I have been single for 6 years), and I have always wondered if this is something I should ever share with a potential spouse, or if this is just something I should take to the grave? Anyway thank you, to you men who are kind to your local working women, I don't know about other women, but I sure appreciate you more than a lot of the other men I have been with

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Anyone considering losing their virginity to a working girl, be sure you tell her you are a virgin! She will take great care of you

You, my friend, are in serious need of re-conditioning. Marathon viewings of Schindler's List ought to do it.

Hahaha, no, thats not the kind of help I need lmao! You are right though, I am in serious need of something major haha.

omg, craigslist prostitution.

i always worry about people being like imprisoned under the foundation or hacked to bits. regardless of what people may or may not think about the moral implications of your choices. it IS some seriously dangerous behavior. there are monsters among us. and they look no different from you and me. but i can guarantee that random craigslist prostitution increases your odds of becoming a news story. :shy:

i couldnt bring myself to get anescort not that i havnt considered it but i need an emotional connection with a girl before i would feel comfortable having sex i wouldnt even feel comfortable having sex early in a relationship i think relationships are more important that just sex but everyone is different if thats what pleases you then do it for sure